What's on: Dying Matters Awareness Week

7th - 21st April

12-1pm: MortaliTea Circle Collective. I'm inviting people to host their own MortaliTea Circle—a gentle space to gather, share, and simply be heard. You don't need to be an expert, just someone willing to hold space. And you won't be alone! From April 7-21st, I'll be offering supportive guidance to help you feel confident in bringing people together for this important conversation. ☕ What is a MortaliTea Circle? - A small, intimate gathering where people can talk openly about death over a cup of tea. There's no agenda, no advice—just listening and being heard. Anyone can host! No special training needed, just an open heart. Visit the MortaliTea website to find out how you can learn how to plan and host a MortaliTea circle of your own. Let's normalise conversations about death and create meaningful connections in our communities—one cup of tea at a time. Find out more.

Thursday 1st May

10.30-11.30am: Lead Person for End-of-Life Care. The Quality Improvement Lead for Recognising a Deteriorating Resident and End of Life Care at The Orders of St John Care Trust, is redeveloping the Lead Person for End of Life Care. The trust will be holding quarterly workshops. The first workshop will be held May 1st, in readiness for Dying Matters Awareness Week. This workshop will look at how we can break down the stigma and taboo of talking about death and dying been look at how we can raise awareness into Death, Dying and Grief within the Trust.                   

5th - 11th May

Various times: HIOW Healthcare Foundation NHS Trust - ‘The Culture of Dying Matters’: This year the Trust’s specialist palliative care team are hosting ‘Dying Matters Awareness Week’ and inviting all staff across Hampshire and IOW Healthcare Trust to join the conversation. We are keen to share and discuss cultural experience and expressions of loss and grief, but also how we create a culture within our Trust, where death and dying becomes ‘everyone’s business’ and where compassion and pastoral care of ourselves and our colleagues caring for people who are dying, is prioritised. Webinars will be hosted over ‘Microsoft Teams’ and we welcome participation from across our new Trust. Look out for links in Trust Communication Bulletins, Staff Facebook page, and forwarded by Trust EOL Champion leads, and via the Trust ‘End of life care’ portal page.

Tuesday 6th May

9.30am-12pm: The Culture of Death and Dying. To build understanding of palliative care, end-of-life care, and bereavement support, we are inviting people from our local communities to share and discuss cultural experiences of loss and grief. Death and grief impact everyone in some way or another, but having open discussions continues to be challenging. Therefore, we are hosting an online event to create a space for these conversations. This will help shape knowledge, improve access, and enhance the experiences of people at the end of life and during bereavement. 

10am-12pm: Dying Matters Week ‘Culture of Dying’. Come along to our special seminar for Dying Matters Week – a chance for us to talk openly and honestly about death, dying, and grief, and how these experiences are understood in different communities. Let’s start the conversation. In person and online event. For more info please get in touch. 

11am-12pm: The Culture of Dying with Poetic Endings. Internal virtual session for staff to explore the culture of dying alongside Independent Funeral Directors - Poetic Endings for this years Dying Matters Awareness Week. Session to provide insight on care after death, influence of culture and practical advice to support family.                     

1-2pm: An introduction to Clean Language. This is an opportunity for colleagues in the South West to join a transformative webinar where we’ll explore Clean Language-an effective communication method to reduce assumptions, truly listen and enable what matters most for the person. We will discover how Clean Language can be applied and hear real-life examples of its success. At the end of the session, Judy Rees—who has been teaching Clean Language globally for over 15 years and is co-author of the bestselling book Clean Language: Revealing Metaphors and Opening Minds—will be available to answer any questions attendees may have. Buy tickets. 

1.30-3pm: Digital planning: Helping others to plan/prepare' online learning event. This free online learning event for health & social care professionals working at all levels is designed to help you navigate what happens to digital accounts and assets—such as Facebook, Instagram, and shopping accounts—before and after death. Gain valuable insights to help patients understand their choices and make informed decisions regarding all password-protected digital accounts. Book your place.       

6pm - 7pm: Accelerate Session: MORTAL. Animate presents an online discussion that considers how differing perspectives on death and dying can be visually represented for Dying Matters Week. Join us on Tuesday 6 May, 6-7pm, when we will be reflecting with the participants of our 'Mortal' commissioning project on thoughts and questions raised during the development of the project, and the power of animation to ignite conversation around this taboo topic. Joining the discussion will be the commissioned artists, Ben Faircloth, and Eilidh Nicoll, along with social anthropologist Dr Hannah Rumble. ‘Mortal’ is supported by Arts Council England. Find out more. 

Wednesday 7th May

10.30-11.30am: Dying Well. A series of online and in-person sessions created for people diagnosed with cancer. Most of us find it difficult to talk about death – our own or that of our loved ones. Yet, acknowledging and discussing it can ease our fears and help us approach the future with greater peace of mind. Dying Well is designed to be a positive and supportive space, offering gentle guidance in thinking about the end of life. Over four sessions, we’ll build confidence in approaching a topic that is often left unspoken. Together, we’ll consider practical steps for planning ahead, reflect on what matters most, and even bring creativity to the idea of our own goodbye. We’ll also explore ways to have meaningful conversations with family and friends, making space for honesty, connection, and even moments of lightness along the way. Find out more.

12-1pm: Grief and Learning Disabilities: We Need to Talk about Death. Grief and death affect us all and yet people often struggle to talk about them. The anxieties and taboos can be greater for people with learning disabilities and their families, friends and carers. But it is important not to exclude people from these important topics and life events. When biggerhouse films collaborated with adults with learning disabilities on the film We Need to Talk About Death, many were keen to talk. As Melissa Foster, who was part of the film, observed, ‘You never know when death will touch you on the shoulder, so the more you understand it, the better’. This panel will explore ways to open up sensitive conversations about grief, death and the end of life. We will screen We Need to Talk About Death and hear from the filmmaker Stephen Clarke. Irene Tuffrey-Wijne (Professor of Intellectual Disability and Palliative Care) will also share insights from her research on talking to people with learning disabilities about dying, death and bereavement, and how these discussions can help us think about what is important and connect to those we love. Book your place.

6-7pm: My First Death: Dying Well in Prison Settings. Everyone deserves a dignified death. But, in custody settings, not all prisoners get the chance to die well. This event, in Dying Matters Awareness Week, brings together nursing, healthcare and prison staff to tell the story of the first patient death they experienced in custody. By bringing out the human stories behind the prison walls we see the patient behind each prisoner. Find out more.

7th - 9th May

10am-5pm: The Culture of Dying Matters. Every year, people around the UK use Dying Matters Awareness Week as a moment to encourage all communities to get talking in whatever way, shape or form works for them. Royal Sussex County Hospital - Brighton will be holding a stall of resources for staff and visitors. This stall is in the main reception of the Louisa Martindale Building and will be manned during lunch times. In line with this year’s theme, "The Culture of Dying Matters", we are offering a safe space to hold meaningful, open, conversations. The stall will be equipped with resources and information to share with both staff and visitors. Address: Eastern Rd, Brighton, East Sussex, BN2 5BE. Find out more.

Thursday 8th May

12-1.15pm: Lunch and learn webinar - dementia and palliative care. The South East London Palliative and End of Life Care (SEL PEoLC) programme is holding an online lunch and learn webinar with a focus on dementia. There will be a range of speakers talking about dementia and palliative and end of life care, followed by an open Q&A session. The webinar will feature speakers from The Community Hospice, Oxleas, and Cicely Saunders Institute of Palliative Care, Policy & Rehabilitation. Register for the event.

6-7pm: Beatrice Godwin Memorial Lecture: "In the midst of day-to-day pressures". This is the Centre for Death and Society's annual Beatrice Godwin Memorial Lecture, which explores the relationship between ageing and the end of life. Book your place.

6.30-8pm: The End of Life Journey (Online Workshop). This free, friendly workshop provides an introduction to the end-of-life journey with professionals talking about the process of dying, hospice care, funeral arrangements and bereavement. Sign up online.    

Friday 9th May

10am-12pm: Wabi Sabi Life: Japanese Death Poetry Workshop - Exploring Impermanence. In this special workshop, we explore life’s impermanence—shaping brief, beautiful poems that honour transience. In this online event online event  we delve into the world of Japanese Death Poetry! Join us as we explore the concept of impermanence through the beautiful and haunting verses of Japanese poets. Discover the deep meanings behind these poignant poems that reflect on life, death, and everything in between. Get ready to be moved by the profound wisdom encapsulated in these haikus and tankas. Don't miss this unique opportunity to immerse yourself in the rich cultural heritage of Japan! Book your place.                                             

1-2pm: An introduction to Clean Language. This is an opportunity for colleagues in the South West to join a transformative webinar where we’ll explore Clean Language-an effective communication method to reduce assumptions, truly listen and enable what matters most for the person. We will discover how Clean Language can be applied and hear real-life examples of its success. At the end of the session, Judy Rees—who has been teaching Clean Language globally for over 15 years and is co-author of the bestselling book Clean Language: Revealing Metaphors and Opening Minds—will be available to answer any questions attendees may have. Buy tickets. 

Saturday 10th May

11am-11.45am: Shining a light on voluntarily stopping eating and drinking (VSED). Voluntarily stopping eating and drinking (VSED) is a topic not often talked about. It describes the process of a person at the end of life bringing forward their own death through a refusal of food and drink. This free session will shine a light on the topic, examine legal and ethical aspects, and explore why it is important for us to talk about VSED. It will include a daughter’s account of her father’s VSED journey. Please get in touch with our working group on VSED to register for the event.

5th - 9th May

Dying Matters Week (Teeside Hospice, Middlesborough): We will be organising a Dying Matters Week commencing the 5th of May until 9th May 2024. Address: Teesside Hospice, 1 Northgate Road, Linthorpe, Middlesbrough, Cleveland, TS5 5NW.

Tuesday 6th May

9am-3.30pm: Dying Matters at Gateshead Health NHS Foundation Trust. We will be at Trinity Square in Gateshead with the Melissa bus, outside of Tesco. We have a short questionnaire, posters, variety of staff you can speak to, colouring sheets for children. We will also have access to resources for anyone who need anything about death and dying. Address: Gateshead Health NHS Foundation Trust, Gateshead, NE8 1AG.

Wednesday 7th May

9am-3.30pm: Dying Matters at Gateshead Health NHS Foundation Trust. We will be at The Community Hub in the MetroCentre for the day. We have a short questionnaire, posters, variety of staff you can speak to, colouring sheets for children, free tea & coffee. We will also have access to resources for anyone who needs anything about death and dying. Address: Gateshead Health NHS Foundation Trust, Gateshead, NE8 1AG.

10am-12pm: Moments that Matter (Middlesbrough). This Dying Matters Awareness Week, we’re shining a light on how death affects us all. Whoever you are, we’re here to help. We’re opening our doors to offer an insight into your local hospice, a tour of our facilities, discussion around death in different cultures, and how we’re supporting those close to you. Come along to our Moments that Matter event to learn more about Teesside Hospice and how you can support us in helping the local community live as well as possible, for as long as possible. Contact us to register your interest. Address: Teesside Hospice, 1 Northgate Road, Middlesbrough, TS5 5NW. Register your interest.

Friday 9th May

7-10pm: Kathryn Mannix and Julian Stair: doctor and ceramicist discuss the concept of "closure" (Durham). A single word can carry many meanings, speak truth, lies, cause confusion, grant wisdom or deception: is “closure” one such word? In conversation with Professor Douglas Davies FBA, Dr Kathryn Mannix (retired palliative care physician) and Julian Stair OBE (one of the UK’s leading ceramicists) will explore the contested concept of “closure”. The conversation will be interactive, with plenty of scope for audience participation. We are absolutely delighted that these two talented individuals are uniquely brought together for this special event. To mark the event, a drinks reception will follow with views overlooking the River Wear and Durham Cathedral. This public lecture is part of our larger two-day conference which broadly explores the concept of “closure”, featuring over 20 speakers representing a diverse range of professional and disciplinary perspectives. The public lecture and full conference can be booked here. Public lecture only: £10. Full two-day conference (access to all sessions, refreshments, etc), including public lecture: £185. Address: Fonteyn Ballroom, Dunelm House (Durham Students' Union), New Elvet, Durham, DH1 3AN. Book your place.

Saturday 10th May

10am-12pm: Grief Cafe at the McIntyre Centre Bishop Auckland (Bishop Aukland). A friendly get together over coffee and cake for anyone touched by bereavement, wherever they are on their grieving journey. The relaxed coffee morning is an opportunity to meet and talk with others in the community who have been bereaved, and share personal thoughts, feelings and experiences around love, loss, and the many issues surrounding it. The event is free to attend, and delicious refreshments are available to purchase at the venue. The Grief Cafe is hosted by local celebrant and holistic therapist Annette Jeffrey. Address: McIntyre Centre, Newgate Street, Bishop Auckland, County Durham, DL14 7EP. Find out more.

Saturday 17th May

10am-12pm: Grief Cafe at Coffee to Envy Cafe in Crook (Crook). A friendly get together over coffee and cake for anyone touched by bereavement, wherever they are on their grieving journey. The relaxed coffee morning is an opportunity to meet and talk with others in the community who have been bereaved, and share personal thoughts, feelings and experiences around love, loss, and the many issues surrounding it. The event is free to attend, and delicious refreshments are available to purchase at the venue. The Grief Cafe is hosted by local celebrant and holistic therapist Annette Jeffrey. Address: Coffee to Envy Cafe, Commercial Street, Crook, County Durham, DL15 9HP.                                                

Tuesday 6th May 

9.30am-12.30pm, 1pm-4pm: Last Days Matter (Southport). Let’s bring conversations about death and dying into life by inviting open, compassionate discussions about a topic that touches us all. Queenscourt Hospice will be facilitating Last Days Matter sessions during Dying Matters Awareness week (5-11 May) that are appropriate for Clinical and Non-Clinical colleagues and will include: planning for the future; to care and accompany; how to say goodbye; to understand and recognise that someone is dying; the ‘new normal’. Address: Queenscourt Hospice, Town Lane, Southport, Merseyside, PR8 6RE.

10:30am-12pm: Crafting Memories (Knutsford). Join the End of Life Partnership (EOLP) to decorate a jar in memory of your loved one. You don’t need to be good at crafts to take part, it’s more about the chance to chat and share memories. There is no cost to take part, and no need to book - just turn up on the day. Address: Knutsford Library, Toft Road, Knutsford, Cheshire, WA16 0PG. 

11am-1pm: Grief Cafe (Salford). As trauma-informed EFT Clinical Practitioner and Grief Educator, I am inviting the community for a coffee and chat about death and dying. Address: The Tatton Cafe, 172 Tatton Street, Ordsall, Salford M5 3PS. More info at www.kasiahalani.com / https://fb.me/e/3ebAIW9RG 

2-3:30pm: Formby Library: Grief Gathering (Liverpool). A welcoming space for anyone—whether you've experienced grief or not—to connect, share feelings, ideas and experiences around love & loss. This gathering is an inclusive space, open to people of all ages, genders, backgrounds and beliefs. You’re invited to share your experiences and reflections around death and grief—but there’s no pressure to speak. Listening and being present is enough. Situated in the gardens of Formby Library, there will be a moment to make simple, no-sew memory flags - something to take home, or leave to be displayed with care and gently fray over time. We keep gatherings small, limited to 12 people maximum, so booking is essential. Book here. The garden is fully accessible for wheelchair users and those with limited mobility via the back of the car park. Refreshments (hot & cold) and cakes will be provided. This Grief Gathering is hosted by librarian, Sarah Jones and artist Josh Coates who have experiences of grief. We're living at a time when many people find death and grief - our own grief or other people's - almost impossible to talk about. This Grief Thing pushes against this, by opening up conversations about grief and making it visible. Follow @feveredsleep on Instagram to learn more. Address: Formby Library, Duke Street, Formby, Liverpool, L37 4AN. Find out more and book your tickets. 

6th - 9th May

Various times: Dying Matters Week (Manchester). This event is for staff, patients, relatives and anyone who may be interested. It will take place from 6th May to 9th May at the hospital main entrance. We have a great team involved and also have The Manchester Choir booked, a singer songwriter has agreed to perform on the grand piano, a group called Handmade Harmonies from Pure Innovations (support group who work with people across Greater Manchester with disabilities or health related issues) will perform a sing and sigh session TBC, there will also be artwork on display from staff, patients and relatives. Religious discussion slots have been arranged over two days. There are balloons for messages to hang on an LED tree, seeds to plant in tubs and take away, labels for messages and cupcakes. During all sessions there will be key staff from various relative departments. Address: The Christie NHS Foundation Trust, Oak Road, Entrance, Manchester, Greater Manchester, M20 4BX. 

Wednesday 7th May

10.30am-3.30pm: Dying Matters - we're here to help you (Chester). A local informal drop in to talk with us about what matters most to you. How we can help you to plan ahead, what support is available in the hospital, hospice and community for patients with palliative illnesses and their loved ones and end of life care. Address: Story House Chester, Hunter Street, Chester, Cheshire, CH1 2AR.

11am-12.30pm: Dying Matters Cuppa and Cake Drop In (Liverpool). The Alder Centre is a purpose built bereavement centre for anyone affected by the death of a child. However recently or long ago, that child dies, whatever the age of the child from pre birth to adult children. It is also the home of the Child Death Helpline. This is a drop in session with freshly baked cakes and drinks available, supported by our child bereaved volunteers and our staff. Come and chat, listen or just sit in our beautiful centre. Address: The Alder Centre, Alder Hey Hospital, Liverpool, L12 2AP. Find out more.

6pm-7.30pm: Love Lives On: A Dying Matters Special with JaksWorld (Salford). Organised by: JaksWorld Charity – Opening safe spaces for grief, love, and honest conversations about life and death. As part of Dying Matters Week 2025, this special evening brings us together to remember, reflect, and prepare — because death affects us all, but love lives on. Join us in honouring those we’ve lost — whether through illness, sudden loss, or suicide — and in exploring how we might prepare for death with courage and care. Whether you're grieving, curious, or simply want to support others, this gathering offers a safe and compassionate space. What to Expect: Memory table – bring a photo, object, or simply the name of a loved one; Candle-lighting ceremony to honour and connect; Gentle group reflections and community support; Conversations around: Living Wills & Advanced Directives, Funeral planning and legacy, What really matters at the end of life, Supporting those grieving, including after suicide, A chance to be heard, to ask, and to find comfort, Refreshments and a welcoming atmosphere. Led by: Kasia Halani – Grief Coach, Clinical EFT Practitioner, Compassionate Inquiry Informed, and Co Founder of JaksWorld, combining lived experience and compassionate guidance to support those navigating grief and preparing for the inevitable. Address: Ordsall Community Arts Centre, 12-14 Robert Hall Street, Ordsall, Salford M5 3LT (Optional: Virtual access available by request).

7-9pm: Kiki DeVille - What Not To Say (Barnoldswick). We are proud to host Kiki DeVille to break down the stigma and taboo of talking about death and dying, after she navigated the painful loss of her son Dexter at just 4 weeks old. She wrote a book last year entitled 'What Not to Say - A Practical Guide to Supporting Bereaved Parents', which has received glowing reviews and helped many to navigate a difficult subject: 'This is an incredible book, written from the heart with honesty, sensitivity and humour.' 'Written from the heart with love, taking into account other people’s feelings as well as her own. The most impressive, inspiring, helpful book.' Kiki is a fantastic public speaker - warm, funny and insightful, and the perfect person to open up an important discussion about loss which ultimately affects us all. Please arrive promptly for 7pm, refreshments will be provided by The Friends of Barnoldswick Library. Address: Barnoldswick Library, Fernlea Avenue, Barnoldswick, Lancashire, BB18 5DW. Book your place. 
 

Thursday 8th May

10am-2pm: Dying Matters - A Conversation (Cheshire). Please drop in for an informal conversation around death, dying and grief. Refreshments provided. We'd love to see you. Address: Lymm Baptist Church, Higher Lane, Lymm, Cheshire, WA13 0AZ.

12-1.30pm & 2-3.30pm: Market Place Event (Ashton-under-Lyne). Willow Wood is hosting an interactive market place at the Hospice on Thursday 8th May 2025, to help continue opening up the vital conversation about death and dying. Members of the public, colleagues from health and social care across both acute and community teams, faith leaders, funeral directors and other charities are all welcome to come along to learn about the culture of death and dying. There are two sessions - from midday to 1.30pm and 2pm to 3.30pm. The guest speaker will be Mohamed Seedat, who is the Lead Chaplain at Tameside Hospital. He will be speaking about culture and spirituality in end-of-life care and death. Limited spaces are available so please book your free ticket in advance. Address: Willow Wood Hospice, Willow Wood Close, Ashton-under-Lyne, OL6 6SL. Book your free ticket.

1:30-4pm: Loved and Lost: The Culture of Dying Matters (Liverpool). Join us for an afternoon of creativity, connection and cultural exploration, which features crafts, activities and a performance, followed by a talk and Q&A to hear more about how different diasporic communities honour their loved ones. As part of Dying Matters Awareness Week 2025 & inspired by their theme, 'The Culture of Dying Matters', we will gather to share stories and celebrate different experiences of bereavement rituals. Afreena Islam-Wright will talk about her personal insights into Muslim funeral rites and what these rituals mean to her as a Muslim in the UK. She will also perform the piece, Meet Me at the Cemetery Gates, which is about her dad’s funeral, grief and green spaces. Our Producer, Debbie Chan will share stories about her experiences of British Chinese funeral customs, reflecting on both the comforting and challenging expectations placed upon her. She'll also guide people in the making of traditional ‘Blessing Envelopes’, explaining the significance they play in Chinese funerals. Inspired by John Berger’s quote, “Our Candles Will Go On Burning Doing Whatever They Can With Us”, Josh Coates invites everyone to participate in an interactive candle-making workshop. This is a chance to talk about candle-lighting as a ritual act of memory across different cultures, reflecting on how candles help us navigate feelings of loss, hope or celebration, & why this practice resonates with so many of us. Open to everyone interested in thoughtful conversations, hands-on creativity and wanting to discover something new about how people navigate the experience of love & loss. Refreshments and cakes will be provided. Address: Crosby Library, Crosby Rd North, Waterloo, Liverpool, L22 0LQ. Find out more.

3pm-4.30pm: Death Café (Nantwich). Come meet others, drink tea, eat cake and talk about death as a natural part of life with the End of Life Partnership (EOLP). We have lots of laughter and a chance to talk about making the most of the time we have. No need to book, just come along on the day. The Death Café movement has no agenda, objectives or themes. It is a discussion group rather than a grief support or counselling session. Address: Nantwich Bookshop & Coffee Lounge, 46 High Street, Nantwich, Cheshire, CW5 5AS.

Friday 9th May

9:30am-4:30pm: Bereavement Champions (Barrow-in-Furness). Update for ward staff/champions regarding latest developments in palliative and end of life care and aftercare support for loved ones. Address: Furness General Hospital, Dalton Lane, Barrow-in-Furness, Cumbria, LA14 4LF.    

Saturday 10th May

6.30pm-8pm: JaksWorld Walk & Talk Around the Canal (Salford). Take a peaceful walk with us around the Canal. A time to talk, reflect, or simply be present as we continue our conversation on grief and end-of-life planning. Address: Ordsall Hall Entrance, Ordsall Lane, Salford M5 3AN                                      

6th - 8th May

Various times: The Culture of Dying Matters Festival - Leeds Teaching Hospitals NHS Trust. Tuesday 6th: Stall in Gledhow Wing, St James' Hospital, featuring items from the Leeds City Museum Living with Death exhibition. Tuesday 6th 11am-12:45pm Gledhow Wing Seminar rooms screening films. Wednesday 7th - stall in Jubilee Wing, Leeds General Infirmary. Thursday 8th - Culture of Dying Matters Festival 10am - 3pm in Gledhow Wing entrance featuring art, literature, poetry and music. Thursday 8th 3pm-5pm: Gledhow Wing Seminar rooms screening films. Address: St James' Hospital, Beckett Street, Leeds, West Yorkshire, LS9 7TF.

6th - 9th May

The Culture of Dying Matters (York). We will have an event at our canteen hub on Wednesday and Friday, and we will have a stall in the main entrance from Tuesday to Friday. We'll also have a manned section of our café, Ellerby's, from 10am to 2pm on Tuesday and Friday. Address: York Hospital - Ellerby's, York, YO31 8HE. 

Tuesday 6th May

10am-2pm: Dying Matters Awareness Week at LTHT – Information Stall (Leeds). Lets Talk About it: Join the LTHT Adult Palliative Care Team to celebrate Dying Matters Awareness Week at LTHT.  We are inviting all LTHT staff, along with visitors to join us in Gledhow Wing Entrance, SJUH at our Dying Matters stall. Meet experts from Leeds City Museum “Living with Death” exhibition and get up close and personal with some historical artefacts that represent the culture of dying through the ages. Address: St James' University Hospital, Beckett Street, Leeds, LS9 7TF.

10am-3pm: Dying Matters Information Stand (Mexborough). Specialist Palliative and End of Life Care Services, DBTH is inviting staff and visitors to join the conversation about death, dying, and grief in ways that resonate with them during this year’s Dying Matters Awareness Week. Come and speak with our specialised staff who will be staffing the stand and we encourage you to engage and feel confident in discussing this sensitive matter.  There will be lots of resources and signposting available. Held at Mexborough Montagu Hospital (Link corridor near to the entrance to the new MEOC Theatres and the corridor to Rehab Wards). Address: Montagu Hospital, Adwick Road, Mexborough, South Yorkshire, S64 0AZ.

10am-2pm: Dying Matters (Hull University Teaching Hospitals NHS Trust, Hull). In Hull, end-of-life care professionals and local organisations who support patients and families during some of life’s most challenging times are inviting staff, patients, carers, and visitors to stop by and have a chat. Address: main foyer of Hull Royal Infirmary. 

10.30am-3pm: Dying Matters Week at Pontefract Hospital (West Yorkshire). Pop-up stall providing information and support to Staff, Visitors, Patients around Dying overall but specifically supporting the Dying Matters theme this year ' The Culture of Dying Matters'. Address: Pontefract Hospital, Friarwood Lane, Pontefract WF8 1PL

11.30am-12.30pm: Dying Matters Week Short Films Screening (Leeds). The Leeds Teaching Hospitals Adult Specialist Palliative Care Team are holding a screening of thought-provoking films exploring themes of death, dying, and bereavement in various cultures and faith identities for LTHT staff in the Gledhow Wing. Popcorn, sweets and refreshments served alongside. Address: St James University Hospital, Leeds, LS9 7TF. 

2pm-3.30pm: Harrogate Death Cafe at Saint Michael's Hospice. This Death Cafe, marking Dying Matters Awareness Week (5-11 May), is for like-minded people coming together to talk about death and death-related issues. There is no fixed agenda. Just bring yourself and enjoy some tea and cake. Along with people across the country, we are helping break down stigma and taboos on death this Dying Matters Week. We’re offering a safe space to express any emotions, share your thoughts and ask questions. See more details on our website. Address: Saint Michael’s Hospice Crimple House, Hornbeam Park Avenue, Harrogate HG2 8NA

Wednesday 7th May

10am-3pm: Dying Matters Information Stand (Doncaster). Specialist Palliative and End of Life Care Services, DBTH is inviting staff and visitors to join the conversation about death, dying, and grief in ways that resonate with them during this year’s Dying Matters Awareness Week. Come and speak with our specialised staff who will be staffing the stand and we encourage you to engage and feel confident in discussing this sensitive matter.  There will be lots of resources and signposting available. Held at Doncaster Royal Infirmary (outside the main canteen). Address: Doncaster Royal Infirmary, Armthorpe Road, Doncaster, South Yorkshire, DN2 5LT.

10am-2pm: Dying Matters (Hull University Teaching Hospitals NHS Trust, Hull). In Hull, end-of-life care professionals and local organisations who support patients and families during some of life’s most challenging times are inviting staff, patients, carers, and visitors to stop by and have a chat. Address: Queens Centre, Castle Hill Hospital. 

10.30am-3pm: Dying Matters Week at Pinderfields Hospital (West Yorkshire). Pop-up stall providing information and support to Staff, Visitors, Patients around Dying overall but specifically supporting the Dying Matters theme this year ' The Culture of Dying Matters'. Address: Pinderfields Hospital, Aberford Rd, Wakefield WF1 4EE

2.30-3.30pm: Black Cats & Unicorns - Celebrancy (Leeds). This event is for staff and residents of Gascoigne House to discuss anything and everything to do with #DyingMatters. Address: Gascoigne House, Nightingale Court, Leeds, West Yorkshire, LS10.

7th - 9th May

9am - 3pm: North Lincolnshire Dying Matters Group (Brigg). Members of the dying matters group will be present along with the RDASH health bus for members of the public to discuss dying matters.

Address:

7th May: Brigg Garden Centre, Bigby High Road, Brigg, North Lincolnshire, DN20 9HE. 

8th May: Brigg Market, The Buttercross, Market Place, Brigg, North Lincolnshire, DN20 8ER.

9th May: St. Johns Market, Jubilee Way, St.Johns Market, Scunthorpe, North Lincolnshire, DN15 6RB.

7th - 18th May: York's Dead Good Festival

York’s Dead Good Festival aims to encourage people to be more open about dying, death and bereavement. The festival will encourage people to express themselves in different ways, whilst giving advice and support on a number of practical matters. Join us for events throughout York including performances, informative talks, crafts, discussions, and more, many of which are free.

Download the full programme for York's Dead Good Festival.

Weds 7th May

1pm: Understanding your digital legacy

Sat 10th May

10.30am: An introduction to memorialising life through the ages.

1.30pm: Food for Thought and Healing with Sabine Horner:

2pm: Complementary Therapies, with the end in mind.

Sunday 11th May

11am: Open Day (York's Memorial Woodland)

11am: Don't Want a Traditional Funeral?

2pm: The Planets are our Portals

Monday 12th May

10am: Conversation Space

1pm: Life Beyond Death

5.30pm: How to be a Kid (Theatre)

Tuesday 13th May

10am: 'Walk and Talk' pet bereavement

1pm: Pop-up Information stand about death & dying, St Leonard's Hospice

2pm: A healthy approach to death?

4pm: Behind the scenes at the Crematorium

5.30pm: How to be a Kid (Theatre)

Wednesday 14th May

1pm: Understanding your digital legacy

2pm: Much Ado about Dying (Film)

Thursday 15th May

10am: Sunflower Wellbeing Hub

3pm: York Death Cafe

4pm: Behind the scenes at the Crematorium

Friday 16th May

11am: Dead Good River Cruise

2pm: Open Day at Last Wishes Funerals

Saturday 17th May

11am: Dead Good Celebrants with Sandi Poston

11am: The Role of the End-of-Life Doula

12pm & 3pm: How to be a Kid (Theatre)

Sunday 18th May

2pm: Poetry in the Cemetery

Download the full programme for York's Dead Good Festival at the link above.

Thursday 8th May

10am-2pm: Dying Matters Community Drop In Day (Mirfield, W.Yorks). We will have information available about funeral plans and also funeral options. There will be someone from our legal services team to answer questions about wills and benefits and reliefs for families. You will have the chance to meet some of the team who will look after your loved one and ask any questions you have about the process of registering someone passing and the funeral day itself. Address: 8 Nettleton Road, Mirfield, West Yorkshire WF14 9AA. 

10.30am-3pm: Dying Matters Week at Dewsbury Hospital (West Yorkshire). Pop-up stall providing information and support to Staff, Visitors, Patients around Dying overall but specifically supporting the Dying Matters theme this year' The Culture of Dying Matters'. Address: Dewsbury & District Hospital, Halifax Rd, Dewsbury WF13 4HS

11am-1pm: Death Cafe and video of Cultural beliefs of South Tees Trust staff around death and dying (Thirsk). The Death Café is a space where people from all walks of life can come together to talk about death and dying in a safe and supportive environment. It’s not a grief support group or a formal workshop—it’s a space to explore thoughts, ask questions, and break down the stigma surrounding one of life’s few certainties. Address: Herriot Hospice at The Lambert, Chapel street, Thirsk, North Yorkshire, YO7 1LU. Find out more.

4pm-6pm: Blyth Pop-up Death Cafe (Northumberland). A Death Cafe is a safe space to talk about death and dying, share experiences, concerns and ask all and any questions.  Everyone is warmly invited to join in the conversation.  As well as tea and cake, there'll be representatives from community based organisations providing bereavement services in the South Northumberland area who'd love to hear your experiences and answer any questions in a safe and positive environment. Address: Headway Arts, The Old Church, Waterloo Road, Blyth, Northumberland NE24 1BA. 

Friday 9th May 

9.30am-5pm: Dying Matters Week at Junction 32 Outlet, with Prince of Wales Hospice (Castleford). Pop-up Stall to provide support and information to Visitors, Staff and shoppers around Dying Matters, specifically around this year's theme, 'The Culture of Dying Matters'. Address: Junction 32 Outlet Shopping, Tomahawk Trail, Castleford, West Yorkshire WF10 4FR

12pm-2pm: Dying Matters Week at New College Pontefract. Pop-up Stall to provide support and information to Students, Visitors, Staff around Dying Matters, specifically around this year's theme 'The Culture of Dying Matters'. Address: New College Pontefract, Park Lane, Pontefract, West Yorkshire WF8 4QR

3-4pm: Flamingos Coffee, Cake & Mortalitea (Leeds). Dying matters and dying well, matters even more. For me, preparing for the inevitable is an act of love towards yourself, your partner, your friends and your family: blood or chosen. For the LGBTQIA+ communities it’s vital that we talk about this. If you want to be respected in death, you need to make your wishes known to the important people in your life. Ensuring you have all the knowledge you can get to prepare for the future can be overwhelming, but I’m here to help. Pop by, grab a drink and we’ll have a chat. Why not come along and find out something you didn’t know before? Discussions around death don’t have to be morbid! Honest. Address: Flamingos Coffee House, 10 Central Arcade, Leeds, West Yorkshire, LS1 6DX. Find out more.

Saturday 10th May

10:30am-12:30pm: Death & Dying: A Buddhist Perspective (free workshop and discussion) (Driffield). This free drop-in event will explore Buddhist teachings around death, dying and coping with loss & will encourage open conversations about the death process & bereavement and how we can develop a positive and meaningful understanding of this important topic.  It is free and there are refreshments provided. Schedule: 10:30-10:50:  What is death and how we can prepare for it; 11:10-11:30:  How to help a dying person  and cope with grief; 12:00-12:30:  What happens next from a practical point of view. This event is supported by Henry Naylor Funeral Parlour, Driffield, who will provide input to the workshops. Address: Henry Naylor Funeral Parlour, Easterfield House, 1 New Road, Driffield, East Riding of Yorkshire, YO25 5DL. Find out more. 

Every Thursday in May

10.30am-1pm: What Would Love Do Now? Movement and dance for living and dying well (Nottingham): Through movement and dance, we will create a safe, accessible and supportive space to reflect on living and dying well through expressive movement, guided prompts and gentle reflection in a supportive community. No prior dance experience needed. All bodies, abilities and genders are warmly welcomed to this 5 week programme starting on Thursday 1 May. Facilitated by Amanda Hawley and Julie Barnes. The programme is free; donations welcome. Sign up here or contact Julie Barnes. Address: IMPACD CIC Studio, Unit G7, Roden House, Ashley Street, Nottingham, NG3 1JG

Tuesday 6th May

10am-2pm: Dying Matters Week Roadshow, Northamptonshire. We will be holding information events across the county in publicly accessible areas, carefully supporting people to start a conversation and give some thought to their future wishes. Address: Dalapre Abbey, London Rd, Northampton, Northamptonshire, NN4 8AW.

6th - 16th May

9am-3pm/7.30-9pm: Good Grief? Textile Exhibition (Derbyshire). A display of banners using words and images stitched by Jacqui Parkinson as an outpouring of personal grief. The exhibition runs from Tuesday 6th - 16th May with opening hours as follows: Wed to Fri 9am - 3pm & Tues & Thu 7:30 - 9pm. Information on bereavement support will be available from Dying Matters and other local organisations as well as hosts and café facilities during daytime opening. Address: Littleover Methodist Church, Constable Drive, Derby, Derbyshire, DE23 6EP.    

Wednesday 7th May                                      

10am-2pm: Dying Matters Week Roadshow, Northamptonshire. We will be holding information events across the county in publicly accessible areas, carefully supporting people to start a conversation and give some thought to their future wishes. Address: Corby Cube, The Cube, George St, Corby, Northamptonshire, NN17 1QG.

4.30pm-5.30pm: Chance to Chat Cafe (Nottinghamshire). We are hosting our first 'Chance to chat cafe' to open up the conversation about death and dying. There will be an opportunity to talk about all areas of bereavement and meet others going through similar experiences. Refreshments will be served and everyone is welcome. Address: Rushcliffe Oaks Crematorium, Main Road, Stragglethorpe, Nottinghamshire NG12 2PY.

Thursday 8th May

10am-2pm: Dying Matters Week Roadshow, Northamptonshire. We will be holding information events across the county in publicly accessible areas, carefully supporting people to start a conversation and give some thought to their future wishes. Address: Rushden Lakes, Rushden, Northamptonshire, NN10 6FH.

Friday 9th May

10am-3pm: Dying Matters Information Stand (Worksop). Specialist Palliative and End of Life Care Services, DBTH is inviting staff and visitors to join the conversation about death, dying, and grief in ways that resonate with them during this year’s Dying Matters Awareness Week. Come and speak with our specialised staff who will be staffing the stand and we encourage you to engage and feel confident in discussing this sensitive matter.  There will be lots of resources and signposting available. Held at Bassetlaw Hospital (Main Entrance). Address: Bassetlaw Hospital, Blyth Road, Worksop, Nottinghamshire, S81 0BD.

Monday 12th May

10am-1pm: Dying Matters event (Chesterfield). We are holding a Dying Matters Event here in the Chesterfield Macmillan Information Centre on Monday 12th May 10-13.00.  We have many professionals joining our event from the palliative team, hospice team, funeral directors, solicitors.  The idea is to bring patients, relatives and staff affected with cancer together to talk openly in a safe environment  to try and break down the stigma about death and dying. Address: Chesterfield Macmillan Information And Support Centre, Chesterfield Royal Hospital, S44 5BL

5th - 17th May

BrumYODO Festival (16 events): A Matter of Life and Death (Birmingham / venues across the West Midlands). A Matter of Life and Death Festival is taking place across a wide range of venues this year from tattoo studios to libraries, from pubs to undertakers and from country parks to art galleries. Organised by community interest company BrumYODO, the Birmingham-based ground-breaking festival runs from 5th to 17th May offering author talks, walks, art installations, poetry workshops and discussions across Birmingham and the West Midlands. BrumYODO, a volunteer-led group based in Birmingham, aims to create safe spaces to think and talk about death and dying. To coincide with the national campaign Dying Matters Awareness Week, BrumYODO has been running A Matter of Life and Death Festival since 2016. Do join us for our 2025 Festival if you can... because Dying Matters. See the full programme of events.

Tuesday 6th May

10am-12pm: Dying Matters Week ‘Culture of Dying’ (Birmingham). Come along to our special seminar for Dying Matters Week – a chance for us to talk openly and honestly about death, dying, and grief, and how these experiences are understood in different communities. Let’s start the conversation. For more info please get in touch. In person and online event. Address: Centre for Lifelong Learning, Medical School, University of Birmingham, Birmingham, B15 2TT.

1-2.30pm: Compton Care in the community (Dudley). The theme of this year’s campaign is The Culture of Dying Matters, and throughout the week, Compton Care's friendly colleagues will be at various locations in the community finding out what matters to you. The team will be on hand to give advice on starting conversations about death and dying and sharing information on planning for the future and our range of specialist services. Come and say hello. Address: Compton Care store, Dudley, Churchill Shopping Centre, Dudley, DY2 7BJ. Find out more. 

12:30-2pm: A Community Conversation (Nuneaton). Join us for a community conversation around culture and dying led by
local experts. We’ll talk about the cultural practices of death and dying in our locally represented cultures to explore how we can create better understanding and foster community connections. Address: George Eliot Hospital, Multi faith chapel, College Street, Nuneaton, CV10 7DJ.

Wednesday 7th May

10am-12pm: Coffee Morning Drop In for Dying Matters Awareness Week (Smethwick). A chance to drop into the beautiful Old Church in Smethwick, to share a cuppa and a chat during Dying Matters Awareness Week. Address: Smethwick Old Church, The Uplands, Smethwick, B67 6EQ.

10am-2pm: Open Event at Mary Stevens Hospice (Stourbridge). We welcome everyone from our community to gain insight into the care and services that The Mary Stevens Hospice offers in the Dudley borough, Black Country and surrounding areas. You can come along to visit our stalls, talk to our wonderful staff and take part in some interactive activities including crafts and a community jigsaw! Discover more about: the Inpatient Unit, day services, bereavement services, social work, spiritual care, volunteering and fundraising. Address: The Mary Stevens Hospice, Education centre, Stourbridge, West Midlands, DY8 2JR. Register our interest.

Thursday 8th May          

10.30am-12pm: Memory Walk (West Bromwich). Memory Walks are a way to remember and celebrate the lives of loved ones who have passed away. Come along to meet new people, learn from each other and engage in meaningful conversations with others. Please bring a bottle of water and comfortable footwear. Go at your own pace, come along with friends or alone if you prefer. Car parking is available on site at the Sandwell Valley Visitor Centre Car Park. Car parking fees apply. Sandwell Valley is accessible using bus routes 4, 5, 16, 40, 45 and 46.
Sandwell Valley is also accessible by walking through Dartmouth Park. It is approximately a 15 minute walk from West Bromwich Town Centre Bus Station. Address: Sandwell Valley Visitor Centre, Salters Lane, West Bromwich, B71 4BG

11am-1pm: Compton Care in the community (Wolverhampton). The theme of this year’s campaign is The Culture of Dying Matters, and throughout the week, Compton Care's friendly colleagues will be at various locations in the community finding out what matters to you. The team will be on hand to give advice on starting conversations about death and dying and sharing information on planning for the future and our range of specialist services. Come and say hello. Address: Compton Care store, Wolverhampton, 2 St George's Parade, Wolverhampton, WV2 1BA. Find out more. 

5.30pm-7pm: An evening discussing Dying Matters, Katharine House Hospice (Stafford). Book your space for our special Dying Matters Week event - call 01785 254645. Join us for a relaxed evening where we’ll discuss death, dying, and grief - topics that are often avoided, but really should be talked about. You’ll hear short talks from our counsellors, nurses and hospice chaplain, followed by time for questions and open discussion. We’ll explore what to expect when a loved one is dying, the stages of death, bereavement support, and spirituality. Why should you come? Because talking about death and dying can help us feel more prepared, informed, and supported. Address: Therapy and Wellbeing Centre, Katharine House Hospice, Weston Road, Stafford ST16 3SB. More info

Friday 9th May

10am-2pm: Compton Care in the community (Wolverhampton). The theme of this year’s campaign is The Culture of Dying Matters, and throughout the week, Compton Care's friendly colleagues will be at various locations in the community finding out what matters to you. The team will be on hand to give advice on starting conversations about death and dying and sharing information on planning for the future and our range of specialist services. Come and say hello. Address: Queen Square, Wolverhampton, WV1 1RF. Find out more. 

Saturday 10th May

10am-2pm: Weaving Connections: Willow, Nature, And Remembrance (Leominster). Join us for a peaceful day of crafts and conversations at Humber Woodland of Remembrance, the first green burial ground in Herefordshire. As part of our event, Steph Shaw of Wegnalls Willow will be running some drop-in willow weaving workshops alongside showcasing her work. Steph is a Leominster based willow coffin and basketmaker who will be displaying a handcrafted willow coffin and other baskets crafted from sustainable, locally grown materials. Come and participate in the drop-in willow weaving workshops and create your own willow hearts,  wreath bases or bird feeders to take home. There will also be hot drinks and refreshments available for a donation. Proceeds going to St Michael’s Hospice, Hereford. This is a drop-in event, so feel free to join us at any time during the listed hours and like our Facebook event for any updates closer to the date. Address: Humber Woodland Woodland of Remembrance, Humber, Leominster, Herefordshire, HR6 0NE. Find out more. 

Thursday 1st May

9am-3pm: Dying Matters - Supporting You to Support Others (Norwich). Dying Matters Awareness Week encourages discussions about death, dying and bereavement, aiming to make it easier to talk about these matters and access the right help. Join us for: Information, advice & drop-in sessions from charities, businesses and organisations supporting end of life issues; support and conversations with Norwich Death Cafe - tea & cake provided; arts activities to create your own token of remembrance. Join our expert speakers for presentations to help you or loved one with: communication tips for supporting someone during an end of life journey; planning ahead for the future; understanding what a normal death looks like; Unexpected Loss, Supporting Children and Living with Grief. Visit 'Continuum' - a contemplative space where natural materials and gentle music alongside sounds and visuals inspired by nature invite reflection on our connection to the rhythms and cycles of life. Brought to you by Off The Twig. Event supported by Norfolk & Waveney Integrated Care System & Compassionate Communities Norfolk. Address: The Forum, Millennium Plain, Norwich, Norfolk, NR2 1TF. Book your place. 

Tuesday 6th May

9am-4pm: DMAW roadshow, Cranley Hospice (Kettering). Cransley Hospice Trust is holding a roadshow where people will be able to speak to a member of the Cransley Hospice Team about death and dying, and find out more about the work the hospice does. We will be located in the supermarket coffee shops during the week:
Lago lounge Rushden Lakes - Tuesday 6th / Kettering Tesco - Wednesday 7th / Wellingborough Tesco - Thursday 8th / Corby Tesco - Friday 9th. 

10am-2pm: Creating a Culture of Dying Well (Ipswich). This Dying Matters Week, ESNEFT are taking part in various ways: [1] We will be supporting the SNEE Be Well bus on both the 8th and 10th of May, alongside external colleagues. [2] We will be holding a stand at Ipswich Hospital T-junction Tues 6th, Weds 7th and Thurs 8th. We will be holding a stand at Colchester Hospital Tues 6th and Wednesday 7th. [3] We have circulated a survey to capture as wide an audience as able which will be anonymously shared during the week. [4] A dedicated EOL newsletter will be sent to our ESNEFT colleagues Tues, Weds and Thurs sharing cultural stories and where people have gone above and beyond to identify and meet peoples individual needs and wishes. [5] We will be holding a Grand Round for medical colleagues/ doctors May 20th (internal TEAMS event) by two of our palliative care consultants. [6] We will be supporting a year long focus on improving cultural care - and focussing on what matters most to the person. [7] 3rd May 2025 - Palliative Care Team Go Extreme! Some of our Ipswich and Colchester Palliative Care colleagues will be abseiling 135ft to raise money for end of life care at ESNEFT. Address: Ipswich Hospital, Heath Road, Ipswich, Suffolk, IP4 5PD.

10am-5pm: Letters to Forever exhibition (St Albans). Immersive multimedia exhibition transforming over 200 grief letters into visual art installation with sculpture, performance, sound pieces and holistic workshops running throughout 3 weeks of exhibition. Address: St Peter's Church, St Albans, AL1 3HG, St Albans, St Albans, Hertfordshire, AL1 3HG. Find out more.

10am-3pm: Butterfly Volunteers (Peterborough). Cambridgeshire and Peterborough Foundation Trust. Address: City Care Centre, Thorpe Rd, Peterborough PE3 6AP

10am-5pm: Information event in The Bistro (Cambridge). Join Arthur Rank Hospice Charity during Dying Matters Week from 6th - 9th May in our Bistro where you can find a selection of resources to learn more about our services. Address: Arthur Rank Hospice, Cherry Hinton Road, Shelford Bottom, Cambridge, CB22 3FB.

11am-1pm: Drop in - Coffee morning (Wisbech). The Team from the Alan Hudson Centre, an Arthur Rank Service in Fenland, are hosting a drop in Dying Matters coffee morning, with local services attending to support. Address: The Park Pavilion, Wisbech Park, Wisbech, Cambs, PE13 3AH

7.30pm-9.30pm: They're Dead: Now what? (Abbots Langley). A panel event being held in Abbots Langley, Hertfordshire to provide bereavement support for residents. The panel will include experts who deal with death on a daily basis, including Funeral Directors, Christian Minister, Civil Celebrant, Registrar and Crematorium Superintendent. They will be happy to answer any questions you have relating to the practicalities following a death  and provide more details of their roles. Be educated. Be prepared. To book a free place please email: bereavement.ctal@yahoo.com Address: Elvira's Henderson Hub, High Street, Abbots Langley, Hertfordshire, WD5 0AR. 

Wednesday 7th May

8am-4pm: Information stall (Bury St Edmunds). Members of our teams will be at Bury St Edmunds Market talking about Dying Matters Awareness Week, as well as sharing more information about the Hospice and how it supports the communities of West Suffolk and Thetford. We'll be sharing Dying Matters Awareness Week resources and encouraging people to start conversations. We'll use conversation starter cards which include a series of questions supplied by the Dying Matters and Hospice UK community. There are no right or wrong answers to the questions. Address: Cornhill and The Buttermarket, Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk, IP33 1BE. Find out more.

9am-3.45pm: Advance Care Plan Day 2025 - National Conference (Norwich). The second national day highlighting the importance of Advance Care Planning. This annual day of action and awareness will highlight the importance of Advance Care Planning and encourage society to document, share and discuss their wishes. The national conference returns to Norfolk. Last year’s sold out conference welcomed 320 in person attendees and thousands watched the live stream. This year’s conference speakers include Dr. Christian R. Ntizimira, Evie King, Celia Kitzinger, Clare Fuller and Vicki Caldwell. The conference is free to attend in person. It is also free to access the live stream. Last year, organisations across the globe had ‘watch parties’ at their place of work. We encourage you to host such an event should you wish to do so this year. To learn more and get involved visit www.AdvanceCarePlanDay.org Address: John Innes Centre, Norwich Research Park, Norwich, Norfolk, NR4 7UH. Find out more.

10am-3pm: Butterfly Volunteers (Peterborough). Cambridgeshire and Peterborough Foundation Trust. Address: Cavell Centre, Bretton Gate, Peterborough PE3 9GZ

10.30am-12.30pm: Companion Voices Learning Circle (Rickmansworth). Companion Voices (www.companionvoices.org) is a national organisation that brings small groups of singers to the bedside of people who are dying. Our local Herts and Chilterns group invite you to this session to meet us, hear our songs and get a sense of the work we do. Please let us know at hertsandchilterns@companionvoices.org if you'd like to come along and we'll look forward to meeting you! Address: All Saints Church, The Green, Croxley Green, Rickmansworth, Hertfordshire WD3 3HJ

11am-1pm: Drop in session with Arthut Rank Hospice Charity (Cambridge). To mark the occasion, we’re hosting a drop-in with Arthur Rank at Cambridge Central Library (1st floor). Join us on Wednesday 7th May from 11am-1pm to find out about the services and the care that Arthur Rank provide at the Hospice and in the community. Free and all welcome. No need to book; just come along! Address: 7 Lion Yard, Cambridge, CB2 3QD.

11am-12.30pm: Dying Matters - Conversation coffee morning (Cambridgeshire). Come and join us for a morning of open and honest discussions about an important topic that effects us all. This in-person event will provide a safe space for sharing stories, asking questions and learning from one another. Please pop in from 11am where light refreshments will be provided. Enjoy a cuppa, pull up a chair, and let’s break the taboo around death and dying with light conversations together. Let’s have a meaningful conversation over a drink and a slice of cake. Space is limited so book a ticket to reserve a chair or if you have any questions email us or call us on 01223 880002. Address: Woodland Wishes Funeral Services, 4 High Street, Fulbourn, Cambridgshire, CB21 5DH. Book your ticket.

6-8pm: Fighting for Life Play (Bedfordshire). One of the events we have planned during Dying Matters week is a live play by Pluto Productions. This is a thought-provoking play exploring end-of-life care. It’s a powerful true story of one family’s struggle to get the care their elderly parents needed. Based on The Findlay Report, it reveals the heartache, resilience, and fight for dignity - revealing that behind every case is a life worth fighting for.  You can find out more here Fighting for Life — Pluto Play Productions. Address: Great Bramingham Lane, Streatley, Luton, Bedfordshire, LU3 3NT. Book your tickets.

Thursday 8th May

9am-12pm: CPFT (Cambridge). Cambridgeshire and Peterborough Foundation Trust. Address: Resource Centre, Fulbourn, Cambridge CB21 5EF

10am-2pm: Meet with Butterfly service and all Dementia Care (Peterborough). In the Atrium at Fulborn hospital, a stall with staff available to discuss that Dying matters with staff/patients. Address: Elizabeth House, Fulborn, Peterborough, CB1 9BF.

10am-1pm: Can games help us to have conversations about death? (Cambridge). Can tabletop role-playing games (TTRPGs) change the way we approach conversations about dying? Join us to playtest a new TTRPG that aims to do just this. Endgame invites players on an intergalactic quest that explores themes of loss, legacy, and letting go. Based on prototypes developed in collaboration with death experts, Endgame is designed to be modded, hacked, and transformed by each new set of players. In this spirit, you will be encouraged to design a card for a custom deck that will be circulated will all participants after the session. No previous TTRPG experience required. Everyone is welcome, you could just be interested or keen to try something new, or maybe you work or volunteer in the fields of gaming and/or end of life care, bereavement support or other related roles. Tea, coffee, and snacks provided. Address: English Faculty, University of Cambridge, 9 West Road, Cambridge CB3 9DP. Find out more about this event.

2-3pm: GraveTalk (Bury St Edmunds). GraveTalk is an opportunity for learning from one another in a safe environment where questions can be shared and discussed. Running as part of Dying Matters Awareness Week, in this taster session, we will look at life, death, society, funerals and grief. In essence, it is learning through exploring, experiences, thoughts and expectations. It is knowing ourselves to enable, equip and encourage others to have meaningful conversations. For more information and to book for this session, please email Gravetalk@stnh.org.uk. Address: St Nicholas Hospice Care, Hardwick Lane, Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk, IP33 2QY. Find out more.

Friday 9th May

10am-2pm: Dying Matters Week, Northamptonshire ICB (Brackley). We will be holding information events across the county in publicly accessible areas, carefully supporting people to start a conversation and give some thought to their future wishes. Address: Brackley Medical Centre, Wellington Rd, Brackley NN13 6QZ.

10am-12pm: Muslim/Islamic Death Practices (Streatley). Learn more about the Muslim/Islamic death culture and practices, with an interactive session about shrouding and washing the body. The workshop will involve:- The framework for Muslim death practices, cultural diversity in the Muslim community – differentiating between what is a religious cultural death practice, death practices according to the Islamic faith, death practices in accordance with Islam, practical demonstrations of washing and shrouding the body and a Q&A forum. Address: Keech Hospice Care, Great Bramingham Lane, Streatley, Luton, LU3 3NT.

2pm-4pm: Herts-CAN Catch-up in Dying Matters Awareness Week (Welwyn Garden City). Join Co-op Members, Customers, Colleagues, Causes and Friends at Co-op Funeralcare to hear from Isabel Hospice, Funeralcare, etc, about why the culture of dying matters. Also learn more about Co-op and have your say. Free Tea and Cake! (Limited numbers, so please book on 07779 543 832 or Geraldine.strohm@coop.co.uk) Address: Co-op Funeral Care, 57 Cole Green Lane, Welwyn Garden City, Hertfordshire, AL7 3PP.

Saturday 10th May

10.30am-12.30pm: Let's Talk About It! (Colney, Norfolk). A light-hearted look at how making our wishes known eases things for those close to us, using the Leaving Gracefully Discussion Cards to start our conversations. Talking about our demise may not be as morbid as you think and there can be a lot of laughter as we discover how we feel about things and consider what our preferences are. All welcome- FREE to attend with a chance of winning a "Leaving Gracefully End of Life Planning Pack". Free tea and coffee will be provided. Address: GreenAcres Living Memorial Park Colney, Watton Road, Colney, Norfolk NR4 7TY. More info 

Saturday 24th May

10.30am-12.30pm: Let's Get Sorted (Colney, Norfolk). Death is an inevitable part of life so “Let’s Get Sorted”

A one day workshop presented by Beverley Bulmer, offering support, insight and inspiration in bringing simplicity into what is required in getting your end of life wishes and plans recorded with ease, whilst dispelling some of the myths on this topic. During the day we will talk about: Wills, Lasting Power of Attorney; Advance Decision to Refuse Treatment; Advance Care Planning, Funeral wishes; Digital Footprint and a whole lot more. There will be time for questions and also a tour of the Park. Promotional price for this event £65 – includes a full Leaving Gracefully End of Life Planning Pack (RRP £45). Address: GreenAcres Living Memorial Park Colney, Watton Road, Colney, Norfolk NR4 7TY. More info 

Tuesday 6th May

9.20am-6pm: What Matters To Me (Sutton). A simple poster campaign to encourage people to think about the important words ‘what matters to me’ and effort to focus on ourselves to improve communication and patient care with the dying person. Address: Green Wrythe Lane, Carshalton, Sutton SM5 1JF

10am-3pm: Dying Matters Awareness Week (Hammersmith). The aim of our event is to raise awareness about the importance of discussing death and end-of-life care, with a focus on the theme "The Culture of Dying Matters." Throughout Dying Matters Awareness Week, we will be hosting a series of stalls at our hospital to engage patients, families, and staff in meaningful conversations about dying, death, and bereavement. The event will provide a range of resources, support, and information. Address: Hammersmith Hospital, Du Cane Road, London, W12 0HS.

1-3pm: YODO Cafe - You Only Die Once - Knowles of Norwood. Come and have some tea & cake and talk about what matters to you at our YODO Café – You Only Die Once. A YODO café is for people, often strangers, to grab a hot drink and a piece of cake and talk about dying. Your café host will help to get the conversation flowing. They will start things off with some myth busting around palliative and end of life care, before finding out from the group what death and dying means to them. They will also be able to let you know about useful local services. To secure your spot with cake and a cuppa, please register here. Address: Knowles of Norwood, 294-296 Norwood Rd, Norwood, London, SE27 9AF. Register here.

1-3pm: YODO Cafe - You Only Die Once - Sylvan Post. Come and have some tea & cake and talk about what matters to you at our YODO Café – You Only Die Once. A YODO café is for people, often strangers, to grab a hot drink and a piece of cake and talk about dying. Your café host will help to get the conversation flowing. They will start things off with some myth busting around palliative and end of life care, before finding out from the group what death and dying means to them. They will also be able to let you know about useful local services. To secure your spot with cake and a cuppa, please register here. Address: Sylvan Post, 24-28 Dartmouth Rd, London, SE23 3XU. Register here.    

3:30-5:30pm: YODO Cafe - You Only Die Once - Eltham GPO. Come and have some tea & cake and talk about what matters to you at our YODO Café – You Only Die Once. A YODO café is for people, often strangers, to grab a hot drink and a piece of cake and talk about dying. Your café host will help to get the conversation flowing. They will start things off with some myth busting around palliative and end of life care, before finding out from the group what death and dying means to them. They will also be able to let you know about useful local services. To secure your spot with cake and a cuppa, please register here. Address: Eltham GPO, 4 Passey Place, London, SE9 5DQ. Register here.

Wednesday 7th May

12pm-3pm: Dying Matters Awareness Week 2025 (Watford). West Hertfordshire Teaching Hospitals NHS Trust. The Palliative Care Team and the Spiritual Care Team are holding an event for this year's Dying Matters Awareness Week... The "Culture of Dying Matters". The aim is for staff and relatives to have the opportunity to talk about how their culture or community feel, talk about and deal with death and dying. There will be a variety of religious leaders present for people to share their experiences, thoughts and feelings with. We will also have an activity "the conversation game" to help people identify what is important to them at the end of life. Address: Watford General Hospital, Vicarage Road, Watford, WD18 0HB.

1-3pm. YODO Cafe - You Only Die Once - The Old Red Lion, Kennington. Come and have some tea & cake and talk about what matters to you at our YODO Café – You Only Die Once. A YODO café is for people, often strangers, to grab a hot drink and a piece of cake and talk about dying. Your café host will help to get the conversation flowing. They will start things off with some myth busting around palliative and end of life care, before finding out from the group what death and dying means to them. They will also be able to let you know about useful local services. To secure your spot with cake and a cuppa, please register here. Address: The Old Red Lion, 42 Kennington Park Rd, London, SE11 4RS. Register here.                                       

Thursday 8th May

10am-3pm: Dying Matters Awareness Week (City of Westminster). The aim of our event is to raise awareness about the importance of discussing death and end-of-life care, with a focus on the theme "The Culture of Dying Matters." Throughout Dying Matters Awareness Week, we will be hosting a series of stalls at our hospital to engage patients, families, and staff in meaningful conversations about dying, death, and bereavement. The event will provide a range of resources, support, and information. Address: St Mary's Hospital, Praed Street, London, W2 1NY.

6.30-10pm: Cycles of Life (Canning Town). Join us at Cody Dock for a unique evening of short talks and conversation, exploring different approaches to mortality. We will hear six fascinating talks from leaders representing the disciplines of art, ecology, history, psychology, and religion. Your ticket price includes a drink at Cody Dock's new Riverside Bar. Arrival from 6pm for an optional free tour. The event will start promptly at 7pm and run till 10pm. 'Cycles of Life' is a collaboration between the Marie Curie Palliative Care Research Department at University College London and Cody Dock. Book now for a stimulating evening, fascinating talks, and meaningful conversation. Address: Cody Dock, 11c South Crescent, London, E16 4TL. Book your place.

Friday 9th May

10am-12pm: Walthamstow Death Cafe. Join Creating Conversations CIC at Walthamstow Library to talk openly about death and dying. A Death Cafe is a safe, confidential and friendly space for people, usually strangers, to come together and talk openly and honestly about death, dying, and making the most of our finite lives. At our Death Cafe we sit in small groups, just like at a regular café, so it's easy to talk or just listen. It’s all very relaxed and informal. The conversation is led by the people in the group. You might want to be more open about the subject or are curious. Some people come because they have a fear of dying or someone else dying, and they want to feel more comfortable or less anxious. Conversations may touch on practical aspects, such as end-of-life planning, wills, and funeral arrangements or how we can spiritually prepare for death. Discussions may be more philosophical about what happens after we die. But of course we can’t talk about death without also talking about how we make the most of our (finite) lives and live more fully. Do come and join us. Address: Walthamstow Library, High Street, London, E17 7JN. Book your place.

10am-3pm: Dying Matters Awareness Week (Fulham). The aim of our event is to raise awareness about the importance of discussing death and end-of-life care, with a focus on the theme "The Culture of Dying Matters." Throughout Dying Matters Awareness Week, we will be hosting a series of stalls at our hospital to engage patients, families, and staff in meaningful conversations about dying, death, and bereavement. The event will provide a range of resources, support, and information. Address: Charing Cross Hospital, Fulham Palace Road, London, W6 8RF.      

6th - 9th May

12 events across Dying Matters Awareness Week (Southampton). Address: Southampton General Hospital, Tremona Road, Southampton SO16 6YD.

Tuesday 6th May                                          

11.30-2pm: Starting the conversation (Portsmouth). The Co-operative Funeralcare delivers you the best end-of-life care, ethically and compassionately. We know that death sees no bounds and affects/happens to everyone. This year, we are starting conversations with colleagues and friends. We will be joined by colleagues from Funeral Planning, Bereavement care, Funeral homes and a local crematorium, we will peal back the curtain to the end of life services world and discover how dying is a truly personal and diverse experience whilst being underpinned by the universal feeling of grief. Address: 1000 Lakeside, Western Road, Portsmouth, Hampshire, PO6 3FE.

12.30-2.30pm: Dying Matters Week Awareness Event (Basingstoke). An event for people to come together to discuss all things around death and preparing for death. Address: Dice Tower, London Street, Basingstoke, Hampshire, RG21 7NY.

1.30-3pm: Death Cafe - Faversham. Join us at The Alexander Centre in Faversham for cake, coffee, and a relaxed, open chat about death - a subject we all too often avoid in our everyday conversations. Address: The Alexander Centre, 17 Preston Street, Faversham, Kent, ME13 8NZ. Book your place.

Wednesday 7th May

8am-5pm: Palliative care team Dying Matters Awareness Week (Brighton). We will have a table and stand in the entrance to the Louisa Martindale Building where you can find leaflets and information. Address: Office 1, Lower Ground Floor, Macmillan Horizon Centre, Royal Sussex County Hospital, Eastern Road, Brighton, Sussex, BN2 5BE.

10am-12pm: Dying Matters - Let’s Talk About It (Thame). A welcoming and gentle space to have discussions and ask questions - with cake! Hosted by Vanessa Kemp. Address: Thame Barns Centre, Church Rd, Thame, Oxon, OX9 3AJ. Find out more.

10am-5pm: Dying Matters in Brentwood: Dying Matters will be celebrated in Brentwood High Street with a number of stalls encouraging people to have the Big Conversation and a strong focus on culture. Address: Brentwood High Street, Essex, CM14 4RP.

2-3.30pm: Death Cafe - Margate. Join us at at ARK: Cliftonville's Cultural Space in Margate for cake, coffee, and a relaxed, open chat about death - a subject we all too often avoid in our everyday conversations. Address: ARK: Cliftonville's Cultural Space, Albion Road, Cliftonville, Margate, Kent, CT9 2HP. Book your place. 

Thursday 8th May

6:45-9pm: Seventy-Eight Thank Yous (Brighton). In his acclaimed one man show, Seventy-Eight Thank Yous, writer and performer James Pretlove shares tales of the extraordinary death and ordinary life of his mother, Val Pretlove, who died by suicide in 2018 at the age of 78. Alongside the deep grief James felt, his mind began to fill with thank yous for his mum. As it did so, he laughed, cried — even more than he was already — and realised the many gifts there were not only in her life, but in her death too. Demonstrating the power of gratitude as it deftly mixes depth with lightness, this piece has captivated audiences from St Stephen Walbrook in the City of London to a run at Edinburgh Fringe. A member of the audience who saw it at the Fringe said, “Thank you so much for sharing your heartbreaking, yet humorous story at the Fringe. Your performance was amazing! I’ve been to many shows at the Fringe this year. They’ve all been good, but I have to say—yours stole the Fringe!”. Address: The Modern Funeral, 19 Station Road, Preston, Brighton, East Sussex, BN1 6SF. Find out more.

7-9pm: Talking about Dying Matters (Brighton). Around half of the population in the UK die in hospital and sadly a significant proportion of them die alone. The Friends of Brighton and Hove Hospitals have launched a new initiative to try and change this statistic for the better. A Friend in Need provides support to people in hospital at the end of their lives. We've funded a volunteer coordinator to manage a team of volunteers to be there for patients during their final days. Our first tranche of volunteers started visiting patients earlier this year and have already made a difference to both patients, their loved ones and the staff caring for them by lightening the load and providing some much needed relief and comfort. As part of national Dying Matters Awareness Week we are hosting this talk at Brighton Girls to share first hand how A Friend in Need is making an amazing impact at Royal Sussex County Hospital. We'll hear from volunteer coordinator, Lou Ikiua, Ollie Minton, Consultant in Palliative Care as well as some of our volunteers, followed by a Q&A. To enable as many people as possible to come, we're offering this event on a pay as you feel basis. Suggested donation from £0.00 - £10.00. All proceeds will go to developing the programme further and benefitting more patients. Address: Brighton Girls, Montpelier Road, Brighton, BN1 3AT. Book your place.

7.30pm: Dying Matters 'Let's talk about it' (Thame). This second event in Thame is being held in the evening, upstairs at The Cross Keys pub. Please buy a drink at the bar then head upstairs. This will be a safe space where we can discuss death and the end of life together. Address: The Cross Keys Pub, East Street, Thames, Oxfordshire, OX9 3JS.

Friday 9th May

3-4.30pm: Death Cafe - New Romney. Join us at at Hub on the Beach in Greatstone, New Romney for cake, coffee, and a relaxed, open chat about death - a subject we all too often avoid in our everyday conversations. Address: Hub on the Beach, 103 Coast Drive, Greatstone, New Romney, Kent, TN28 8NR. Book your place.

Saturday 10th May

10am-1pm: Crematorium Open Day (Isle of Wight). The Isle of Wight Crematorium is hosting an open day, inviting the community to explore its serene grounds and learn more about the services provided. Visitors will have the opportunity to take guided tours of the crematory, gaining insight into the processes and care involved in cremation services. Knowledgeable staff will be on hand to answer any questions and provide detailed explanations. Visitors will also be able to learn about council-run cemeteries, spend time in the baby garden, and visit the newly refurbished chapel. The Isle of Wight Crematorium is administered by the Isle of Wight Council's Bereavement Services, and the staff are dedicated to providing compassionate and professional support to all visitors. Address: Isle Of Wight Crematorium, Station Lane, Whippingham, Isle of Wight, PO32 6NJ.

10am-1pm: Dying Matters Day (Southampton). Address: Holy Saviour Church Bitterne, Bursleson Road, Southampton SO19 7LW.

10.30am-2.30pm: Reading Crematorium Open day. Reading Crematorium & Henley Road Cemetery would like to invite guests to tour the Crematorium - to see what goes on behind the scenes. Guests will have a chance to talk to Registrars about death registration, Cemetery staff about funerals and the cremation process. Guests are invited to tour our gardens. Tickets must be booked - event is free. Sessions are at 10:30am, 11:30am & 1:30am. Address: 55 All Hallows Road, Caversham, Reading, Berkshire, RG4 5LP. Book your place.

Sunday 11th May

10am-12pm: Wolvercote Community Market (Oxfordshire). Wendy is a former Registered Nurse who also trained as a Soul Midwife. She raises awareness about death and dying in her village, and runs workshops enabling people to explore and become more familiar with the dying process. On Sunday May 11th Wendy will be at the Wolvercote Community Market, bringing books to browse and resources to share. Wendy loves learning about how other people engage with death and dying - culturally, practically, emotionally and spiritually - and welcomes conversations. Let’s talk! Address: Wolvercote Community Market, c/o The White Hart Pub, 126 Godstow Road, Wolvercote OX2 8PQ

Monday 12th May

5.15-6.30pm: The Oxford Death Cafe. We all share the knowledge that one day we shall die: Death Cafes, supported by experienced facilitators, offer a safe place  for people of all ages and beliefs (or none) to come together and  share open, relaxed conversations around death and dying over tea and biscuits. Far from being awkward or morbid, these discussions are informative,  open, friendly and supportive. There can even be humour, as people  begin to make connections, ask questions and find relief in talking  openly with others who share similar thoughts, fears or experiences. Address: Old Fire Station Cafe, 40 George Street, Oxford, Oxfordshire, OX1 2AQ. Find out more.

Sunday 18th May

2pm-4pm: Companion Voices at the Jubilee Library (Brighton). Companions are singers based in the UK who gather regularly to learn songs and prepare themselves to sing for people at the end of life. We share our voices, compassion and loving presence through our beautiful repertoire of songs, developing a deep and trusting community spirit that supports all Companions as well as those we gather to serve. Our Brighton group meets monthly and we're holding this special session for Companions and other people interested to learn about our work. Address: Jubilee Library, Jubilee Street, Brighton & Hove BN1 1GE. More info

Tuesday 29th April

10am-2pm: Dying Matters Living Library (Bristol). Death and Dying Collective at UWE hosts the Dying Matters Living Library. Come along and ‘check out’ one of our living books and chat about end of life in different cultures and communities. We will be joined by celebrants, faith leaders and end of life carers from a range of faiths and cultures. No booking required. For more information contact Hazel Cottle. Address: East Wing, Glenside Library, UWE Bristol, Blackberry Hill, Bristol, BS16 1DD.

Monday 5th May

11am-12pm: Breathing for Healing, Moving for Mending (Helston). Gentle Compassionate seated yoga for those coping with grief. Address: 43 Morrab Road, Penzance, Cornwall, TR18 4EX. Find out more. 

5th - 11th May

9am-5pm: Art from the Heart (Swindon). Dying Matters Week art exhibition! From Monday 5 May, we're showcasing the work of talented local photographer John Crew in the Heart of the Hospice cafe. John, who's volunteered with us for a year as part of our photography team, has captured incredible moments from our events and conferences over the past 12-months. Come explore his unique perspective in this free exhibition. Open to everyone! Address: Prospect Hospice, Moormead Road, Swindon, Wiltshire, SN4 9BY. Find out more. 

Tuesday 6th May

10-11.30am: Supporting a person with dementia during a bereavement (Newton Abbot). Like anyone, a person with dementia may respond to bereavement in a range of ways. However, difficulties with thinking and reasoning may affect how they understand and process the bereavement. This talk will explore how a bereavement may impact a person living with dementia, including how to tell someone about a bereavement; how to spot the signs of grief and support someone; and changes to someone's support and care arrangements if someone close to them dies. Led by Jude Pinder, Chief Operating Officer at The Filo Project. This event is suitable to all aged 18+. Tickets are free, but donations towards our charity Libraries Unlimited on the day are gratefully received. For further details, contact the library directly or email us. Address: Newton Abbot Library (Passmore Edwards Centre), Market Street, Newton Abbot, Devon, TQ12 2RJ. Book your place.

10.30am-11.30am: Dying to meet you (Amesbury). A chance to meet others and chat about end of life, death, dying and grief. Buy a drink from the cafe and join us for a chat. Address: Evergreen Cafe, Archers Way, Amesbury SP4 7YT. More info

12pm-2pm: Music from the Heart (Swindon). Music from the Heart! Join us for live music in the Heart of the Hospice Cafe during Dying Matters Week. Enjoy a selection of music from children’s choirs to pop singers while you grab lunch or a treat. Let’s open up the conversation about death and dying together. Address: Prospect Hospice, Moormead Road, Swindon, Wiltshire, SN4 9BY. Find out more. 

2-3.30pm: The Nature of Loss (Newton Abbot). A taster session with Nickie Aven, grief counsellor and Emma Capper, certified nature and forest therapy guide, exploring how our relationship with the natural world can support us when facing dying and grieving for all kinds of loss in our lives. We will meet participants at the Library Lounge in the library and if the weather is good, walk out to Bradley Woods through Bakers Park. (A 13 min gentle stroll.) In the woods we will offer simple sensory invitations to help you connect with nature, time for self-reflection and time to share our experiences. This event is suitable to all aged 18+. Tickets are free, but donations towards our charity Libraries Unlimited on the day are gratefully received. For further details, contact the library directly or email us. Address: Newton Abbot Library (Passmore Edwards Centre), Market Street, Newton Abbot, Devon, TQ12 2RJ. Book your place. 

2.30pm-3.30pm: Dying Matters at Branksome Heights Care Home (Bournemouth). We are opening up our home so that everyone can come and have an open and honest chat about death and dying with our Admiral Nurse. Address: Branksome Heights Care Home, 44 Branksome Wood Road, Bournemouth BH4 9LA  

6-7.30pm: What do your dreams mean? (Swindon). Ever wondered what those weird dreams really mean? Join us for a fun and fascinating evening with Psychotherapist Ken Blanton as he unlocks the secrets of your subconscious. Ken is an expert in psychotherapy and psycho-spiritual care, and while this is a light-hearted event, be prepared for some potentially revealing insights. This event, marking Dying Matters Week, is a great opportunity to explore life's mysteries and support Prospect Hospice. Food and drink available for purchase at The Hop. Tickets are free, though donation buckets will be available at the event if you'd like to make a donation to Prospect Hospice. Address: The Hop Inn, Devizes Road, Swindon, Wiltshire, SN4 9BY. Reserve your space.

Wednesday 7th May

10am - 1pm: Dying Matters - Let's talk about it (Plymouth). We know how hard it can be to think and talk about death and dying, to make plans and to share them with loved ones. So this year we’ll be supporting Dying Matters week offering our community the chance to join us on Wednesday the 7th May to speak with a range of service providers and gather resources on this really important topic. We look forward to welcoming people of all ages and at all stages of their lives to this event. Address: Barnardo's - The Rees Centre Family and Wellbeing Hub, Mudge Way, Plymouth, PL72PS.

Thursday 8th May

11am - 2pm: Death Cafe (Totnes). Pop up death cafe being held at Totnes Hospital - main gym on the ground floor. Being run by members of the intermediate care team. Open to staff, patients, relatives. Very informal, drinks and cake available. Open discussion all things death and dying. Address: Totnes Hospital, Totnes, Devon, TQ9 5GH.

6th - 9th May

10am-3.30pm: Film Screening: "We need to talk about...Death” (Bridgwater). In support of Dying Matters Awareness, biggerhouse film are presenting their film “We need to talk about ….death" from Tuesday 6th to Friday 9th May. A collaboration with a group of adults with learning differences from My Day Care Services, the film opens up conversations around the taboo, subject of death and dying and was commissioned by NHS Somerset. The film will be playing all week on a loop so come and grab tea or a coffee and watch our very beautiful and moving film. Address: The Engine Room Cafe, 52 High Street, Bridgwater, Somerset TA6 3BL. Find out more. If you can't get to the engine room in Somerset, you can watch the film online here.
 

6th -11th May

12-1.30pm: Dying Matters Week (Exeter). Let’s celebrate the trusts cultural diversity for Dying Matters Week! This Dying Matters Awareness Week, we’re focusing on how different communities and cultures in the UK feel, talk about, and deal with death and dying – and what brings them together. Over the week there will be a Dying Matters stand in the RILD building. There will be a world map for staff to stick post it notes on with their experience of death or dying in their community or culture. The stand will have talking points and resources to help start conversations to help us learn from each other and our experiences. Address: Royal Devon University Healthcare NHS Foundation Trust (Eastern site), Exeter, EX2 5DW.  

Wednesday 7th May

10-11.30am: How to Talk to Young People About Death (Newton Abbot). Discussing death with young people can be challenging, but open and honest conversations are essential for their emotional well-being. This talk will explore age-appropriate ways to approach the topic, address common fears and misconceptions, and provide guidance on supporting children and teenagers through grief. Led by an ex headteacher, now a funeral celebrant, this session will offer practical advice for parents, educators, and caregivers. This event is suitable to all aged 18+. Tickets are free, but donations towards our charity Libraries Unlimited on the day are gratefully received. For further details, contact the library directly or email us. Address: Newton Abbot Library (Passmore Edwards Centre), Market Street, Newton Abbot, Devon, TQ12 2RJ. Book your place.

10:30am-12pm: End of the Road Cafe (Helston). A safe space to talk openly about grief, death and dying. Address: Roselidden House, Trevene Bal, Helston, Cornwall, TR13 0PT. Find out more. 

11am-4.30pm: Walking with loss together (Ivybridge). Join Nickie Aven, Grief counsellor and Emma Capper, forest therapy guide for a deeply healing time in nature, walking in the woods by the river Erme. Finding creative ways to honour, manage and release our grief from all kinds of loss in our lives. Booking essential - Your contribution = £15 - £25. Bring a packed lunch. Any questions email nickie.aven@gmail.com. Address: Longtimber Wood, Ivybridge, Devon, PL21 0JG. Book your place.

2-3.30pm: Exploring Death Through Creative Writing (Newton Abbot). Writing can be a powerful tool for processing grief and exploring our relationship with death. In this interactive workshop, participants will be guided through creative writing exercises designed to express emotions, reflect on personal experiences, and engage with themes of loss and remembrance. Whether you’re an experienced writer or just beginning, this session offers a supportive space to explore difficult emotions through words. Please bring a pen and paper/journal to write in. For further details, contact the library directly or email us. Address: Newton Abbot Library (Passmore Edwards Centre), Market Street, Newton Abbot, Devon, TQ12 2RJ. Book your place. 

2.30pm-3.30pm: Dying Matters, Kingsley Healthcare Group (Weymouth). We are opening up our home so that everyone can come and have an open and honest chat about death and dying with our Admiral Nurse. Address: The Queen Charlotte Care Home, 432 Chickerell Road, Weymouth DT3 4DQ

3-4pm: Open Afternoon at Heart and Soul Funerals: tour and talk (Buckfastleigh). At Heart and Soul, we want to help normalise conversations about death and dying. We also want to help demystify the work of funeral directors - our sector is often surrounded by a sense of mystery. What better way to understand what excellent care is than to hear from our team and see our premises for yourself. We invite you to come and visit the beautiful space in which we work in Buckastleigh, meet our team, learn about how we support our clients and look after people and ask us any questions. We will provide refeshments - drinks and some small bites. Access: There is wheelchair access throughout our premises. There is an accessible (disabled) toilet on site. Please let us know if we can help with any other access needs. Address: Heart and Soul Funerals, 18 Dart Mills, Totnes Road, Buckfastleigh, Devon, TQ11 0NF. Book your place.

Thursday 8th May

10am-1pm: Culture of Dying (Cheltenham). This event is to celebrate Dying Matters Week, Culture of Dying. Sue Ryder will be working Gloucestershire Libraries and Registration Service, to look at all aspects relating to Death, Dying and how that is dealt with by different Faiths and Cultures. Please come along and join us. Address: Cheltenham Library, Clarence Street, Cheltenham, GL50 3JT.

10-11.30: Supporting Bereaved Colleagues in the Workplace (Newton Abbot). Grief is often a hidden struggle in the workplace, which many employers and colleagues are poorly equipped to understand, let alone provide appropriate support for. Anastasia Somerville, Bereavement and Support Coordinator at Rowcroft Hospice, will be visiting to open up a conversation around this, and to answer questions about what best practice might look like, when it comes to supporting the bereaved at work. This event is suitable to all aged 18+. Tickets are free, but donations towards our charity Libraries Unlimited on the day are gratefully received. For further details, contact the library directly or email us. Address: Newton Abbot Library (Passmore Edwards Centre), Market Street, Newton Abbot, Devon, TQ12 2RJ. Book your place.

10am-11.30am: Dying Matters event (Sidmouth). We are holding an event at which speakers will speak for 20 mins about their business / charity that is related to death and dying. We will also have tables with information from those speakers and others not able to attend along with tea and coffee. The speakers are encouraged to stay for at least a couple of hours so that the attendees can speak and ask questions. Address: Dissenters of Sidmouth Hall, All Saints Road, Sidmouth EX10 8ER. 

10am-11.30am: Dying Matters event (Honiton). We are holding an event at which speakers will speak for 20 mins about their business / charity that is related to death and dying. We will also have tables with information from those speakers and others not able to attend along with tea and coffee. The speakers are encouraged to stay for at least a couple of hours so that the attendees can speak and ask questions. Address: Mackarness Hall, High Street, Honiton EX14 1PG. 

10.30am-11.30am: Dying for a cuppa (Wilton). A chance to meet others and chat about end of life, death, dying and grief.  Buy a drink from the cafe and join us in conversation. Address: Weavers Cafe, The Guild, King St, Wilton SP2 0RS. More info

1-4pm: Dying Awareness Week - Garden Conversations (Crediton). The Growing Well Garden is a green social prescribing project based at Bow Medical Practice in Devon. The project provides gardening as a therapeutic activity in a friendly, supportive, and very beautiful countryside setting. The Growing Well Garden is an innovative, community, healthcare project. For Dying Matters Awareness Week, the garden will provide a calm, reflective setting for a display and sharing of Dying Matters materials, along with garden conversations about death and dying with a Practice GP, a Humanist Funeral Celebrant and Healthcare Chaplain, and with a Therapeutic Gardener. Address: Bow and North Tawton Medical Practice, Iter Cross, Junction Road, Bow, Crediton, Devon, EX17 6FB.               

2pm-3.30pm: Funerals: Creating our own Culture (Buckfastleigh). Come join us at the lovely Moor Imagination Centre Cafe in Buckfastleigh on Thursday 8th May at 2pm for an informal discussion about our own future wishes; what we want and need for our funerals. This event is part of Dying Matters Week and will provide an opportunity to listen, share, explore the many wonderful cultures of funerals and to discuss how we can create our own. Everyone is welcome and we look forward to exploring and sharing our own needs and wants for our funerals with you, as well as hearing about your own thoughts, if you're happy to share. We know that these discussions can be so enriching and supportive - we're looking forward to hearing new ideas and ways of thinking that haven't occurred to us before. The session will be facilitated by Nickie Aven (Grief Facilitator) and Sarah (Heart and Soul Funerals). We're looking forward to seeing you soon. Any questions, please email: sarah@heartandsoulfunerals.co.uk Address: Moor Imagination Centre Cafe, Chapel Street, Buckfastleigh, Devon, TQ11 0AB.

2-3.30pm: TULIPS: a Simple Approach to End-of-life Planning (Newton Abbot). End of Life Planning is a way of being comfortable with answering the question: “If I had died yesterday, what have I put in place to make things easier for those around me today?” An End-of-Life Plan is a document that enables you to capture and record all the details about you and your life. Your plan can be as high-level or as detailed as you would like it to be - there is no right or wrong, only what is right for you. But......where do you start? This talk will introduce you to the TULIPS framework of end-of-life planning: Tidying Up - Leaving Instructions - Planning Your Send-Off. You’ll learn some of the practical steps you can take to getting more organised today so that you are better prepared for tomorrow. This event is suitable to all aged 18+. Tickets are free, but donations towards our charity Libraries Unlimited on the day are gratefully received. For further details, contact the library directly or email us. Address: Newton Abbot Library (Passmore Edwards Centre), Market Street, Newton Abbot, Devon, TQ12 2RJ. Book your place. 

2.30pm-3.30pm: Dying Matters, Highcliffe Care Home (Christchurch). We are opening up our home so that everyone can come and have an open and honest chat about death and dying with our Admiral Nurse. Address: 5 Stuart Rd, Christchurch BH23 5JS

7.30-8.30pm: Talking About the Big Questions: A Conversation with Dr Kathryn Mannix (Weston-Super-Mare). Death is as natural as childbirth; yet, while we love to talk about babies and birth, we do everything we can to avoid thinking about death and dying. For this special event for Dying Matters Awareness Week, we are delighted to welcome to Weston-Super-Mare Dr Kathryn Mannix, renowned expert on death, dying and end-of-life care and best-selling author. The evening will offer a safe space for the audience to ask any questions they have. On registration you are welcome to let us know what questions you would like to cover. Kathryn will be in conversation with Lucy Selman from the University of Bristol, founding director of Good Grief Festival. After the conversation, books will be available for signing. Bar open for hot and cold drinks and snacks. Ticket cost: £5-£8. Event accessibility information: Front Room is fully wheelchair accessible with step free access and wheelchair accessible toilets. If you would like to discuss your access requirements, please email hello@goodgrieffest.com. Address: Front Room, 13 Central Walk, Weston-Super-Mare, BS23

7.30-9.30pm: Last Writes: An Evening With Salena Godden (Exeter). Join award-winning poet and novelist Salena Godden at Exeter Library for an evening of poetry, prose, and candid conversation about death. At this event we'll be joined by award winning poet and novelist Salena Godden (Mrs Death Misses Death) to talk about all things poetry, prose, death & dying. Expect frank, funny and fascinating conversation alongside some captivating readings and performances. Salena will be joined by Bard of Exeter and performance poet Ceri Baker, "End of life doula" and host of the Library's Death Cafe, Aly Dickinson. Plus more guests TBA. This event will take place on the main Library floor and will last for 2 hours including a 15 min break. There will be a pop-up bar serving a range of alcoholic and soft drinks. Tickets are Pay What You Can starting from £4. Suitable for all ages, though please note there will be some frank and open chat about death & dying. Address: Exeter Library, Castle Street, Exeter, Devon, EX4 3PQ. Book your place.

Friday 9th May

10-11.30am: (Un)cover Your Feelings with Mindful Journaling (Newton Abbot). Talking about death can be tough and sometimes we struggle to find the words we want to say. That's where journaling can help. Join us this Dying Matters Week for a simple and laidback creative workshop where we'll explore a journaling exercise. There will be plenty of time to cover your journal and get really creative - there are no limits. You'll go away with a decorated journal and prompts to help you carry on your creative life journey. All are welcome - no previous experience of journaling or crafting required. This event is suitable to all aged 18+. Tickets are free, but donations towards our charity Libraries Unlimited on the day are gratefully received. For further details, contact the library directly or email us. Address: Newton Abbot Library (Passmore Edwards Centre), Market Street, Newton Abbot, Devon, TQ12 2RJ. Book your place.                                             

10am-1pm: Culture of Dying (Gloucester). This event is to celebrate Dying Matters Week, Culture of Dying. Sue Ryder will be working with Gloucestershire Libraries and Registration Service, to look at all aspects relating to Death, Dying and how this is dealt with by different Faiths and Cultures. Please come along and join us. Address: Quedgeley Library, Bristol Road, Gloucester, GL2 4PE.

10.30am-11.30am: Dying for a chat (Salisbury). Join us to talk openly about death and dying at Salisbury Hospice. Address: Salisbury Hospice, Odstock Rd, Salisbury SP2 8BJ. More info.

12-1pm: Dying for Beginners: An Interview with Kathryn Mannix (Bristol). We are excited to welcome to Bristol Dr Kathryn Mannix, palliative care doctor and therapist, and best-selling author. Since taking early retirement from her clinical work, Kathryn Mannix has been campaigning to reclaim public understanding of dying. In this special lunchtime session for Dying Matters Awareness Week, Dr Andrew Blades from the University of Bristol will interview Kathryn about her life and work. Refreshments will be available. After the interview, Kathryn will sign books. Kathryn Mannix’s interview will be the first event run by the newly established Grief Centre, Bristol. The Centre will be officially launched in July. Ticket cost: £5-£8. Event accessibility information: There is a wheelchair lift for a few steps at the entrance and then the room is on the ground floor. There are accessible toilets. If you would like to discuss your access requirements, please email hello@goodgrieffest.com. Address:, 11 Woodland Road, Bristol, BS8 1TB. Book your place.

2-3.30pm: The Coroners’ Courts Support Service; the Role of the Volunteer (Newton Abbot). Many people have heard of an inquest but don’t necessarily understand what it's about. What does it involve? When and why does an inquest take place and who decides? If you find yourself attending one, what should you expect? The Coroners’ Courts Support Service (CCSS) is a registered charity whose trained volunteers offer emotional support and practical help to bereaved families, witnesses and others attending an inquest at a Coroner’s Court. This Dying Matters Week we will be joined by volunteers from the CCSS in Exeter who will explain what happens at an inquest and how they can help people navigate an often difficult and upsetting process. Come along to find out more, ask questions and discover an area that isn’t widely discussed but affects many of us and learn about the people seeking to make the process that little bit easier. This event is suitable to all aged 18+. Tickets are free, but donations towards our charity Libraries Unlimited on the day are gratefully received. For further details, contact the library directly or email us. Address: Newton Abbot Library (Passmore Edwards Centre), Market Street, Newton Abbot, Devon, TQ12 2RJ. Book your place.

2-4pm: Dying Well Surgery (Penzance). Medical & legal aspects of the grieving/dying process, and Chaplaincy support with Jessica Lior (Lawyer), Em Dixon (Hospital Chaplain) and Dr Frank Davey (GP). Address: 43 Morrab Road, Trevene Bal, Penzance, Cornwall, TR18 4EX. Find out more.

7-9pm: Songs to Die For. A community singing circle connecting with death and dying with David Rose, Lyndz Jeanne, Rachel Smart and Searaphina NicArta. Address: Mudita House, 43 Morrab Road, Penzance, Cornwall, TR18 4EX. Find out more.

Saturday 10th May

10-11.30am: Ask a ... Will Writer (Newton Abbot). What is a will and why do you need one? What happens if you die without having made one? And how is a will different from a Lasting Power of Attorney? Ian Pennicott is a Chartered Financial Planner and Associate Member of the Society of Will Writers. He will explain why you need a Will, and what happens if there isn’t one. He will also explain the relevance of Trusts in a Will and the effect this can have on Inheritance Tax and Estate planning. There will be plenty of time to get all those “What happens if…” questions answered in this friendly and informal session. All welcome. This event is suitable to all aged 18+. Tickets are free, but donations towards our charity Libraries Unlimited on the day are gratefully received. For further details, contact the library directly or email us. Address: Newton Abbot Library (Passmore Edwards Centre), Market Street, Newton Abbot, Devon, TQ12 2RJ. Book your place.

10-11.30am: Ask a... Soul Midwife (aka Death Doula) (Newton Abbot). Just as a midwife or birth doula helps with a birth plan, a Soul Midwife (also known as a Death Doula or End of Life Companion – so many names!) helps with a death plan. From soothing touch at the end of life to practicalities such as form filling for allowances and so much more, this talk from a Soul Midwife will discuss why it matters to them that people talk about what they want at end of life. Offering emotional as well as practical support, we’ll delve into what Soul Midwives do and how they can help in various situations at what is often a difficult time. With plenty of time for questions, come along to find out more about this much needed, and often freely given, vocation. This event is suitable to all aged 18+. Tickets are free, but donations towards our charity Libraries Unlimited on the day are gratefully received. For further details, contact the library directly or email us. Address: Newton Abbot Library (Passmore Edwards Centre), Market Street, Newton Abbot, Devon, TQ12 2RJ. Book your place. 

10am-3pm: Dying Matters Open Day (Ashburton). An open day for everyone to come to St. Andrews Church Hall in Ashburton to discuss Dying Matters. To ask questions, raise issues, chat and listen to a variety of people who have many years of experience. Present will be: Dr Sarah Human, Palliative Care Consultant from Rowcroft Hospice; Emma Oakley, a lawyer specialising in Will making and creating Lasting Powers of Attorney; Rupert Callender, a local funeral director and author; The local District Nursing Team. Local author and journalist Sophie Pierce will conduct a Q&A session with these experts between 12pm - 1pm. There will be masses of information and all questions can be answered and chatted through whilst clutching hot soup, rolls, tea, coffee and cake. For more info please contact Anna on apdunscombe@gmail.com. Address: St Andrews Church Hall, Ashburton, Devon, TQ13 7DT.

10am-5pm: A Day to Explore Dying Matters (Glastonbury). Sacred Death Centre Presents: A Day of Talks & Workshops for National Dying Matters Week. Join us for a transformative day of conversation, connection, and learning as we explore death, dying, and grief with The Sacred Death Centre. As part of National Dying Matters Week 2025, this special gathering invites our community to come together for a series of workshops, talks, and rituals designed to open meaningful dialogue, share wisdom, and provide support around life’s final transition.
What to Expect: Inspiring talks on end-of-life care, grief, and sacred death practices; Interactive workshops exploring holistic approaches to death and dying; Space for open discussion, reflection, and community connection. Whether you are navigating personal loss, supporting a loved one, working in end-of-life care, or simply curious about these essential conversations, this event is for you. Let’s come together to honour, learn, and embrace the sacredness of death. We look forward to sharing this day with you. Tickets £5. Address: Red Brick Building, Morland Rd, Glastonbury, Somerset BA6 9FT Book your ticket.

12-1.30pm: Ask a ... Funeral Director (Newton Abbot). Most people will attend a funeral at some point in their lives but the likelihood is that they will experience only a few variations in a sea of possibilities. Does a funeral mean you have to wear black? What if you’re concerned about the environmental impact – is there such a thing as an eco-funeral? What does direct cremation actually involve and is it really any cheaper like the adverts suggest? What does a funeral director even do and do you really need one (spoiler alert: not necessarily!) Funerals are incredibly personal and should be unique to the individual but we’re not always sure what’s allowed or appropriate. If you’ve got a burning question about funeral planning but have never found the right time to ask, then come along to this talk, discover what’s possible and get that question answered once and for all! This event is suitable to all aged 18+. Tickets are free, but donations towards our charity Libraries Unlimited on the day are gratefully received. For further details, contact the library directly or email us. Address: Newton Abbot Library (Passmore Edwards Centre), Market Street, Newton Abbot, Devon, TQ12 2RJ. Book your place.                                             
12-1.30pm: Newton Abbot Death Cafe. This Dying Matters Week, join us for an open and relaxed conversation about death and dying over a cup of tea (or coffee!) and slice of cake. Part of a worldwide movement towards more open conversations about death, Death Café has no formal agenda and you can say as much or as little as you like. Whether you’ve been to many Death Cafés, or this will be your first, all are welcome and we look forward to meeting you! This event is suitable to all aged 18+. Tickets are free, but donations towards our charity Libraries Unlimited on the day are gratefully received. For further details, contact the library directly or email us. Address: Newton Abbot Library (Passmore Edwards Centre), Market Street, Newton Abbot, Devon, TQ12 2RJ. Book your place. 

12.30pm-5pm: Dying Matters in Totnes (South Devon). This is the second year that Dying with Grace is putting on an event in Totnes to bring awareness and conversations about death and dying in to the community, as part of Dying Matters Week. It will be held at Birdwood House, in central Totnes. The afternoon will open with a blessing and some poetry, we have talks from the amazing soul midwife Tasha Kailisher (on the stages of Dying), Heart and Soul funeral directors, and Rebecca Collett a will writer. There will be a grief space, a death cafe, and gentle songs from the threshold choir. And then at 7pm in the evening, across the road at Bogan house,  the wonderful RedEarth playback theatre are holding an evening to explore death and dying . Free event. All welcome. Address: 14 Huxham's Cross, Totnes, Devon TQ9 6NT

2-3.30pm: Ask a ... Funeral Celebrant (Newton Abbot). Ever wondered what a funeral celebrant is? What do they actually do? Or perhaps you’ve never heard the term before – are they the same as a religious minister or totally different? How might they help with funeral planning? Or is it something you can do yourself? Come along and get the answers to these, and all your other funeral ceremony questions answered in this fun and friendly Q&A with a local funeral celebrant. This event is suitable to all aged 18+. Tickets are free, but donations towards our charity Libraries Unlimited on the day are gratefully received. For further details, contact the library directly or email us. Address: Newton Abbot Library (Passmore Edwards Centre), Market Street, Newton Abbot, Devon, TQ12 2RJ. Book your place. 

2-3pm: Newton Abbot Death Café presents ... Sound Bath. To conclude the programme of events for Dying Matters Week, Newton Abbot Death Café is delighted to offer a group Sound Bath by Sarah Richards, a Soul Midwife and End of Life Doula in training. Death can be a difficult and challenging topic, often intertwined with themes of grief, loss and bereavement as well as feelings of love, joy, gratitude and hope. Sound Bath offers an opportunity for a group sound healing session, through a guided meditative sound journey lasting around fifty minutes. This has a calming effect on the nervous system, balances the brain, boosts the immune system, regulates blood pressure and heart rate, and can restore and rejuvenate on all levels, mind, body and spirit. Please arrive by 1.45pm to ensure a prompt 2pm start. Disclaimers can be found here. You will be asked to sign a Sound Bath consent form at the start of the session. This event is suitable to all aged 18+. Tickets are free, but donations towards our charity Libraries Unlimited on the day are gratefully received. For further details, contact the library directly or email us. Address: Newton Abbot Library (Passmore Edwards Centre), Market Street, Newton Abbot, Devon, TQ12 2RJ. Book your place.

2-4pm: Eldering - The Sunset Years (Penzance). Growing old can be a state of body and mind where the light and warmth of the sun diminishes, and sunsets are obscured by grey clouds. Eldering is remembering to look for the beauty in the sunsets, finding authentic gratitude for this life, and embracing the fleetingness of our existence And whenever possible to use this experience as a power for the good of all​. A meeting for Elders* to engage in a creative exchange, and to support each other to be in service to our communities and our world. David Rose is in an ongoing enquiry about what is means to be an elder in these times. This offering comes from a dream and ongoing contemplation. David intends to facilitate this as an experiential exchange, rather than a talk, or theoretical discussion about Eldering.* What qualifies you to attend this event, or to define yourself as an elder, is entirely up to you to decide. All Donations go to Hospice UK & Cornwall Hospice Care. Contact David 0777 3030418. Address: Mudita House, 43 Morrab Road, Penzance, Cornwall, TR18 4EX. Find out more.

4:30-6:30pm: Flowing Through Grief (Penzance). A gentle Biodanza journey of healing and connection. Address: Zedshed, Jubilee Wharf, Commercial Road, Penryn, Cornwall, TR10 8FG. Find out more.

Sunday 11th May

10am-6pm: Liminal Time Workshop (Bath). We prepare for births and marriages, why not deaths? The Liminal Time workshop has been described as "A masterclass in Death Literacy." In a day long experiential workshop, Isabel Russo, Director of The Good Funeral Guide and Head of Ceremonies at Humanists UK for 7 years, gently charts the period of time from just before a death occurs, to just after the funeral has taken place. In England that is, on average, a 4 week window, and is a time that can be entirely overwhelming. Through conversation, reflection and creativity, we learn how to practically and emotionally prepare for this liminal time. We prepare for births and marriages, why not deaths? Participants have described the day as 'transformative' and 'as essential as a first aid course'. You'll leave with courage and confidence. Address: Well Bath, Wooley Lane, Charlcombe, Bath BA1 8BA. Get tickets

Monday 12th May

10.30am-12pm: End of the Line Death Cafe, Good Grief Collective (Penzance). Death Cafe is a place to come together to share our hopes and fears around death and dying, a place to honour and share our stories of grief and loss, a place to co-create a community of support. Tea and cake are provided. All are welcome to this small friendly group. Rosie Hadden has over 5 year’s experience of holding space for death cafes, grief circles and grief tending ceremonies. She is an End-of-Life Doula and trained with Living Well Dying Well. She co-hosts Companionship Cafes with No one Dies Alone in Cornwall and has worked for many years as a Creative Arts Facilitator in the Arts for Health field. She is a poet and an artist. Booking essential by email or contact Kay on 07866 573690. Donations to Cornwall Hospice. Address: 43 Morrab Road, Penzance, Cornwall, TR18 4EX. More info: www.soulwave.co.uk/dying-matters                                        

Sunday 11th May

2-5pm: Remembering our Dead Beloveds. A practical workshop with Rebecca Althaus (poet) & Susie Chaikin (artist). We'll be stitching our grief and love into fabric and writing letter poems to our loved ones who have died.​ Rebecca will bring pens and paper, and letter-poems written by poets like Emily Dickinson to read for inspiration. Susie will bring fabric, threads and examples of work she has made. The very act of stitching and writing can support a healing conversation within us, helping to express difficult emotions, memories, and the unsaid. Come and create in a relaxed, small group with Susie and Rebecca, and tea and biscuits. Susie is an artist whose latest work came about from processing the grief around her husband's heart attack and a friend's death from cancer. She stitched the heart and lungs, stitching beauty and thought into harsh moments. Rebecca is a poet and creative researcher who began to write as a way to make sense of her partner's death. She writes poetry about love, death, and grief and is researching long-term grief. £10 (or pay what you can - proceeds go to Cornwall Hospice). ​To book contact: Rebecca t: 07825082555. Address: Mudita House, 43 Morrab Road, Penzance, Cornwall, TR18 4EX. Find out more.

7pm-8.30pm: Colin Binks - a sensitive and exploratory evening on end of life care (Cheltenham). Inspirational Talk, where the worlds of religion, spirituality and medicine meet in dignity, respect and love. Address: Quakers Meeting House, Warwick Place, Cheltenham GL52 5NP. More info 

Monday 12th May

7:30-9pm: An Evening to Remember (Penzance). This evening is an opportunity for all who have lost loved ones to gather, remember their dead (however recent or long ago) and to be reminded that we are not alone in sorrow. ​We will be invited to sit quietly, share photos of loved ones (if you wish), light a candle and do a guided practice of 'Essential Phowa'. This simple practice is from the Tibetan Buddhist tradition. It requires no prior experience, faith or belief - anyone can do it! And of course, there will be tea & biscuits.​ Kay Parkinson is a long-term practitioner within the Tibetan Buddhist tradition. She has been holding Meditation groups for many years. She has a long held curiosity for death and dying, which has found expression in Death Cafes, Dying as Well As We Can and co-founding The Little Death Festival, Penzance. Suggested minimum donation £5 for Cornwall Hospice/Hospice UK​. Booking essential. Call 07866573690 or email us. Address: 43 Morrab Road, Penzance, Cornwall, TR18 4EX. Find out more. 

Friday 16th May

6-9pm: Sunset Ancestral Rhythms (Penzance). Dancing for Dying Matters. Address: Chapel Carn Brea, Penzance, Cornwall, TR19 6HU. Find out more.

Saturday 24th May

2-9pm: Grief Tending Ceremony (Penzance). Come together in these challenging times as a community and co-create a space to connect, to move, express, transform and be witnessed in our grief, in whatever way this emerges.​​​ Our intention to reclaim and express grief in its many shapes and forms. In this practice, Grief is embraced as an essential part of being alive, and a healing force for personal & collective transformation. This ceremony is informed by Sobonfu Somé’s grief sharing from the Dagara Tribe, West Africa, that emphasises the belief that healthy community requires both a place to celebrate and to grieve. With David Rose, Rachel Smart, Rosie Hadden, Lyndz Liquid Light. Cost: £65 / £45 (limited concessionary places). 25% of the profits will go to Hospice UK and Cornwall Hospice Care charities. Address: Gulval Village Hall, Gulval, Penzance, Cornwall, TR18 3BG. Find out more. For more info and to book call 0777 3030418.

Monday 5th May

1-2.30pm: Concert to Launch Dying Matters Week (Haverfordwest). Paul Sartori Community Choir is launching Dying Matters Week with a lunchtime concert at St Mary’s Church, Haverfordwest. This will be free entry with tea and cake available after the concert to encourage people to stay and talk. Address: St Mary's Church, 8 High Street, Haverfordwest, Pembrokeshire, SA61 2DA. Find out more.

Tuesday 6th May

9:30am-3:30pm: Exploration of Culture around End of Life Care and Death (Swansea). For STAFF ONLY - A series of talks in relation to culture and 'What matters most'. This is ONLY open to Swansea Bay University Health Board staff or by invitation. Address: Heol Maes Eglwys, Morriston, Swansea, SA6 6NL.

Wednesday 7th May

10am-2pm: Exploration of Culture around End of Life Care and Death (Swansea). The Multi Faith Centre at Morriston Hospital will hold an open day where people can come and chat. There will be various Faith Leaders available to chat with. Address: Heol Maes Eglwys, Morriston, Swansea, SA6 6NL.                                                 

Thursday 8th May

10am-2.30pm: Information and Activities Day (Milford Haven). This will be free entry with tea and cake available. There will be information stands from Paul Sartori (Hospice at Home services and Future Care Planning), Sandy Bears (Bereavement counselling for children), Carers Support Pembrokeshire, Natural Burial and Celebrant services, and a local solicitor (for information on will writing etc). There will also be a guided walk for those who have been affected by suicide and a craft table. Address: The Third Place, Nantucket Avenue, Milford Haven, Pembrokeshire, SA73 2BE. Find out more.

10am-4pm: Compassionate Communities in Wales, Age Cymru (Cardiff). As part of Dying Matters week, Compassionate Cymru, facilitated by Age Cymru, will be holding an in-person event to shine a spotlight on compassionate communities in Wales in relation to death, dying, grief and bereavement. Come to this free event, funded by Macmillan Cancer Support, to hear about the amazing work going on to develop compassionate communities in Wales, including: Georgina Jones who runs Grief Discos, on why joy is important in grief;   Compassionate Penarth on the work they are doing to develop the first compassionate town in Wales;     Community Volunteer Julie Skelton on 'What Matters Most' when planning for end of life; 'Dying to Know with Ivor Thomas Funerals’ led by Community Outreach Coordinator, Donna Marie Sibanda; Ceridwen Hughes from Same But Different CIC on their project 'Dying to be Heard'; Marie Curie’s Companion at Home/ in Hospital service. The event is free with lunch and refreshments provided. Places allocated on a first come, first serve basis. Find out more and sign up here or call Age Cymru on 029 2043 1555 to book a free place. Address: in Cornerstone, Charles Street, Cardiff, CF10 2GA

Cymunedau Tosturiol yng Nghymru - Dydd Iau 8 Mai 2025. 10am-4pm, yn Cornerstone, Stryd Siarl, Caerdydd, CF10 2GA. Fel rhan o wythnos Dying Matters, bydd Cymru Garedig yn cynnal digwyddiad wyneb yn wyneb, wedi’i hwyluso gan Age Cymru, i dynnu sylw at gymunedau caredig yng Nghymru yng nghyd-destun marwolaeth, marw, galar a phrofedigaeth. Dewch i'r digwyddiad rhad ac am ddim hwn, a ariennir gan Macmillan Cancer Support, i glywed am y gwaith anhygoel sy’n digwydd i ddatblygu cymunedau caredig yng Nghymru, gan gynnwys:       Georgina Jones sy’n rhedeg Grief Discos ar pam fod llawenydd yn bwysig mewn galar; Penarth Garedig ar eu gwaith i ddatblygu’r dref dosturiol gyntaf yng Nghymru; Julie Skelton, Gwirfoddolwr Cymunedol, ar ‘Y Pethau Pwysicaf’ wrth gynllunio ar gyfer diwedd bywyd; ‘Dying to Know with Ivor Thomas Funerals’ dan arweiniad y Cydlynydd Allgymorth Cymunedol, Donna Marie Dibanda; Ceridwen Hughes o Same But Different CIC ar ei phrosiect ‘Dying to be Heard’; Gwasanaeth Cwmpeini yn y Cartref/ yn yr Ysbyty Marie Curie. Mae’r digwyddiad yn rhad ac am ddim a darperir cinio a lluniaeth. Dyrennir lleoedd ar sail y cyntaf i'r felin. Cofrestrwch yma neu ffoniwch Age Cymru ar 029 2043 1555 i archebu lle am ddim.
 

Friday 9th May

12pm: Dying Matters at YG (Bangor). Address: Ysbyty Gwynedd, Penrhosgarnedd Road, Bangor, LL57 2PW

6.30-8pm: Dead Good Quiz! (Dinas Cross) This will be a quiz with a difference, all the questions will be related to death in some way. This event will use humour to get people to engage with Dying Matters Week. We will be offering refreshments and Paul Sartori staff will be on hand to give support. Address: Yr Hen Ysgol, Dinas Cross, Pembrokeshire, SA42 0XB. Find out more.

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